I would like to start with a confession; “I am guilty of doing this too.” Sometimes, I will text a friend I am supposed to have a date with and subtly imply how stressed I am before asking if we are still on for the date. Don’t judge me; I am usually stressed, and my …
Love & Relationships
When a man goes silent after a date, it can be the worst thing ever for you, especially if you are really into him already. You may try to deny it as much as possible, but it can be very confusing. You may find yourself repeatedly reviewing the details of your last date, trying to …
In Nigeria, when a woman is referred to as a “wife material” it implies that she possesses qualities that make her a potential good wife. The term “wife material” is widely used worldwide but originated from and is more commonly used in regions around Africa and Nigeria, to be specific. I come from Nigeria, so …
I recently read “A Journal for Jordan” by Dana Canedy, which revolves around military romance and the challenges of being in love with a military man. Basically, it is a memoir the author compiled for their son so he could have a deeper understanding of the father he lost before he could form lasting memories. …
Writing about whether or not to visit a guy in his house reminds me of this story I read on Reddit. So, this girl meets a guy on a dating site, and he invites her to his because he wants to cook for her. She’s apprehensive, but she goes to see him anyway. He makes …
Breaking up is hard to do, but so is resisting the urge to text your ex. I just had to put that up for you to know that I understand how messy breakups and the aftermath can be. Call it healing at your pace or doing it your own way, but darling, know that healing …
One of the costly assumptions we make in marriage is thinking that we know what our spouse wants in bed. We assume we know what turns them on and keeps them satisfied, but this is sometimes far from the truth. For husbands who want to make sure their wife feels loved and appreciated in the …