• singlehood

    my regret as a single lady

    So some days ago, I asked my best friend, ‘’do you think we enjoyed our single years?’’ After she recovered from laughing, she replied, ‘’No, we didn’t. It’s not because we didn’t gyrate but we were busy with relationship issues, carrying burdens that were not ours when we were supposed to be flexing with our income.’’ I laughed, even though she was very right. We went on and on about how we didn’t catch enough fun. Fun in this context means travelling to different places, seeing exciting sights, enjoying friends’ (male and female) company, and all of that. It’s not about getting drunk and having sex with random guys o,…