The ability to keep your partner enchanted and captivated is an important part of every relationship and marriage.
And it is both ways.
Couples are meant to prioritize their commitment and love for each other over the allure they feel, but this does not in any way diminish the need for a healthy level of attraction between them.
And while this attraction should be effortless, it can and should also be enhanced by the things each individual does.
Let us talk about it from the woman’s POV today.
Some women know how to keep their men hooked on them, and it’s not because they have any special abilities; it’s just by some things that they do.
These behaviors, whether natural or learned, have magnetic effects; they leave these men completely smitten.
6 Traits Of Women Who Keep Their Men Completely Captivated
1. They prioritize looking good
Perhaps this wasn’t the first thing you thought I’d mention.
You probably expected me to mention something deeper.
Don’t worry; we’ll get to the deeper stuff shortly.
But let us start from here because best believe me, this is super important, too.
Women who keep their men enchanted continually have a track record of being slayers.
Believe it or not, men love women who look good.
It’s not about him having wandering eyes—well, there’s that for some men—but even very disciplined and loyal men appreciate it when they see a woman who looks great.
These women know this, so they stay on top of their game when it comes to slaying.
They’re rarely caught unfresh.
They have time for themselves; doing their hair, and nails, waxing, skincare routine, and wearing beautiful outfits.
It’s not about being shallow; it’s about making a good impression and leaving a lasting one.
The partners of these women stay captivated, even when they’re physically far away from them; they think about them, and remembering just how appealing and attractive she is makes them eager to return to their women.
Looking good is good business in every way because it also boosts confidence.
So it’s not just about the impression it gives the man; it’s also about how it makes the woman feel about herself.
She feels confident and beautiful, making her even more attractive
So, women who hold their men spellbound don’t play about their beauty, dress sense, scent, behavior, and attitude.
2. They’re always on top of their game
We’ve talked about these women being on top of their game when it comes to their looks, but that’s not all they’re good at.
They’re slaying in other ways, too.
Whether it’s in their work, business, community, or duty at home.
They’re not redundant women who just sit back and let things happen to them.
They’re constantly on the move, seeking ways to excel and grow in their various endeavors.
Although this trait seemingly has nothing to do with their romantic life, it still impacts it greatly.
Their passion and drive make their men enthralled by them.
You’d think that to keep their men captivated, they have to wrap their lives all around that man.
That’s not exactly the case.
Sometimes, the trait that keeps the man mesmerized is the quality of life his woman has.
She’s not needy, lost, or always miserable about her life.
Rather, she’s thriving and flourishing, living a life that is beautiful and captivating.
3. They’re kind and show respect
One easy way many women grab their husbands’ Mumu button (weak point) is by treating them with respect and honor.
When someone is kind to you and respects you in significant ways, it’s almost impossible for you to want to let them leave your life.
Every human being has the desire to be loved and respected intrinsically, and husbands seem to have this desire more.
So when that desire is met, it does something to them.
Many women whose husbands stay addicted to them have the habit of being kind and respectful to them.
They intentionally seek ways to show their man that he’s very loved and esteemed.
You’re unlikely to find them speaking negatively about their man in public or shouting at him to people’s hearing even if there’s a disagreement.
They’d rather wait until they’re alone together and then express their reservations without being demeaning, insulting, or excessively critical.
These women just know how to press the right buttons on their husbands and make them feel like Kings constantly.
And if he’s ever down and needs a shoulder to lean on, they’re there, providing support.
Their men can not but reciprocate this love and respect.
4. They’re fun and carefree
The day I met my cousin’s wife, I understood why he never gave us a breathing space and would always talk about “My wife this and my wife that.”
He could be at an event and suddenly notice that he wasn’t comfortable anymore.
When you asked him why, he said he wanted to go home to his wife.
I always wondered if his house was some sort of sanctuary, but the day I had the opportunity to meet his wife and spend a few days at their home, I realized that it was indeed a sanctuary.
His wife was a very bubbly and happy woman.
She exuded so much grace, good vibes, and positivity.
She had a beautiful sense of humor too, and such a wholesome presence.
I mean, just by being around her, you could feel like everything would be okay because she had such a positive outlook on life, lightheartedness, and a grateful spirit.
Not to mention her interesting and playful side; she had a unique way of flirting with her husband and making him blush.
I didn’t have any further explanation to understand why her husband was always in a hurry to return to her.
I didn’t want to leave her house either!
Women who keep their husbands captivated have a habit of bringing joy and happiness to people around them.
They’re positive women who make their men feel happy and at peace.
And everybody loves peace.
5. Wisdom and patience
When a man knows that whatever challenge he faces, his wife’s wisdom and knowledge will always prove useful and helpful, that man is unlikely to go anywhere.
Women whose husbands are glued to them have a habit of being problem solvers.
Of course, they may not have the answers and solutions to every issue, but they have useful contributions and ways of making complicated issues less complicated.
Whether it’s a kitchen fail, wardrobe crisis, friendship issue, or major business challenge their husband is experiencing, they know something about it and will make the situation better.
I was at a marriage seminar last week, and after the facilitators were done, I asked them what they loved about each other because they were a couple.
The husband said he loves that no matter what is going on in his life, he never feels the need to hide it from his wife.
If anything, he’s always encouraged to share with her because she’s ready to listen and somehow always makes things better.
6. Keeping things spicy
Women who command their husbands’ undivided attention are women who know how to keep the romance in their marriage alive.
They put effort into looking good and staying attractive, but that’s not all.
Their character and personality are also endearing.
They know how to be sweet to their husbands, calling them sweet names, cooking their favorite meals, planning dates and surprises, and initiating intimacy.
They’re not women who just sit back and let the man do all the work.
Not at all.
They’re actively fanning the flames of love in their marriage.
It’s a no-brainer: Their men will always be crazy about them because they’re everything they need and more.