Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre. It is not a rescue mission. Yet, many women walk into marriage hoping that the ring will change him. Spoiler alert: it won’t. If anything, marriage will expose what was already there and magnify it. Take it from a woman who has been married for eight years, seen enough stories, …
Love & Relationships
I have a friend whose ex was very manipulative. Although he didn’t blatantly cheat on her, which I would argue is still cheating, he was often micro-cheating. But he manipulated her into thinking it was normal until she found someone who showed her something different. Now, if you’ve never heard this term before, micro-cheating is …
Choosing who to marry is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. It’s a decision that can either make or mar you. And unfortunately, many people walk into it with eyes full of butterflies and hearts full of hope, but very little clarity. I’ve seen it happen over and over. Smart, godly, ambitious people …
The moments leading up to a breakup are the worst. It’s like you can see what’s coming, and you dread it, but you almost feel helpless. But as bad as this feels, it’s still better. I’ll explain. It’s better to be aware that it’s happening than to be completely oblivious until the breakup hits you …
When I was single, I was scared of marriage. I’d heard countless stories of pain and regret from married people, and honestly, I didn’t want to become part of those statistics. I love love. I had always dreamed of getting married and having my own family, but that didn’t diminish the fear inside my heart. …
Having sex with someone new can be such a heady experience. Let’s be sincere, you meet a new guy and get talking. By fate or by design, your conversations get a little spicier. You build up sexual tension through texts, phone calls, and random dates. Finally, you ask him to come into the house with …
I believe every woman has had an encounter with men who just want to play them. Some fell for the charming act most players put up, while others didn’t. There is no greater joy than the one you get when you identify danger fast enough to escape without any scratches. However, if you have ever …