Having a beautiful relationship is not by magic or chance. A relationship is as beautiful as the effort the people involved put into it. A relationship cannot survive on its own, and a relationship does not die a natural death. The GIGO (Garbage In Garbage Out) principle also applies to love matters; that is, whatever you get out of a relationship is determined by what you put into it. Many beautiful relationships that could have blossomed into an amazing union have been murdered by some acts that I’ll be sharing with you. Even marriages that had the potential to be amazing have ended in divorce due to the negligence of…
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Top Three Mistakes Women Make in Marriage
Apart from the fact that every marriage is different, there’s no ‘marriage school’. Or, marriage is actually a school where you collect your certificate before even starting. So, we are bound to make mistakes. As wives, we are bound to make mistakes in our marriage. The most important thing is to know that we are making mistakes and learn from them. I’m married, and I can tell you that I’ve made these top three mistakes most wives make in marriage. I’m not trying to judge us but to point out to us these top three mistakes that we make in our marriage, so we can be better wives to our…
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How to the Best Girlfriend Ever to Your Man
Yeah yeah. I know I wrote about one thing men want from women. 😌 But that doesn’t mean there aren’t ways every man wants their girlfriend to be the best girlfriends ever. No matter what a man wants, he wants his girlfriend to be a better girlfriend to him in these 8 ways: HOW TO BE THE BEST GIRLFRIEND EVER 1. Encourage and support him Who doesn’t want to be encouraged and supported? Men have been raised to act and be perceived as strong, but this doesn’t change the fact that they’re human beings too who could use some encouragement and support. What does your man do? Do you know…
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Getting Over a Breakup Like a Boss
No one starts a relationship with the hope that it gets sour, but things happen. At the start of a relationship, lovers share a mutual optimism that their love will be forever. However, for various reasons, relationships usually hit the rock. Breakup is a common occurrence, in fact, as some relationships are getting started, some are ending. However, no matter the ubiquity of breakup, it’s still a painful experience, and nobody’s experience should be trivialized. While some are able to get over a break up, others find it difficult to achieve the same. A lady once shared how she was unable to get over a breakup even after two years.…
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What I Did Differently to Get the Man of my Dreams
I met hubby a few years ago through a female mutual friend in our third year in Uni. I had absolutely no idea he was using her to get close to me. I always sat with my friend in class, and hubby would come talk to her and use the opportunity to say hello and exchange a few words with me. He later got my phone number, my BBM pin. It was the world of Black Berry phones then. We got talking and later became friends. He traveled a lot in school. He’s into automobiles and started quite early in life, thus, had to travel a lot for business. He…
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5 Lessons I Learned the Hard Way that Transformed My Marriage
Hubby and I have been married for a year and 6 months. They say marriage is a place of so much learning. Well, I have learnt quite a number of lessons in my very young marriage that transformed our marriage but I’ll share FIVE of them with you. So, here are FIVE of the lessons I learnt the hard way that changed my marriage: I’m not always responsible for my spouse’s unhappy moods There are days the Dear Husband’s mood is just somehow. Then I would start to think that I must have said something or done something wrong. But alas, when he finally opens up, it’s definitely not me!…
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3 Signs You are Taking Your Partner for Granted
When you treat your partner unfairly because you know they love you too much, so they will always tolerate you and never leave you, then you are taking them for granted. You may even be taking your partner for granted without knowing. The following ways are signs you are taking your partner for granted: Unreciprocated Gestures Relationship/marriage is a partnership affair, not a sole proprietorship, thus, all hands must be on deck to make love work. It takes two to tango. You take your partner for granted if you fold your arms and watch them see to the running of the relationship alone. They always do the calling, initiate chats,…
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How to Keep Your Man – The Best and Only Way
If I had a dollar each time I came across an article, a social media post, or a quote on ‘keeping your man’, I would be a millionaire. I understand that the society has made it seem like the greatest aspiration of every lady should be to have a man to call her own. Not just that, we have been made to believe that men are scarce, or, good men are scarce; so, if you’re lucky to have one, keep him with all thy might. While I take this to be a myth, I won’t fail to agree that the level of moral decadence that has plagued our world today…
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5 Things the Guy You are Dating Must Never Know about You
When we (ladies) are in love, we talk. We talk. I mean, we spill out almost everything in our minds. Even the most introverted of us becomes talkative. It’s like we throw our filter outta the window and let words form themselves in our mouths. While it’s good to be free with someone you’re in love with or dating, this habit usually puts us into trouble because we eventually say things that we shouldn’t say. At least not so soon. Again, while it’s good to be open and honest, I don’t think it’s everything you should tell a guy. That’s why I’ll be sharing with you 5 things you should…
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How to Make Him Respect You
You don’t often come across articles on how to make a man respect you. Do you? But there are unlimited books and articles on how to make a man love you or love you more. This is because we’ve been fed with the stereotype that ‘men want respect, women want love’. There are even a bunch of books bearing that title. I don’t know about you, but for me, there’s no love without respect. I feel loved and honoured when I’m respected. If you don’t care about being respected, you can stop reading right here. I don’t want you reading my blog post with your face creased in a frown.…
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Savage Replies to, “Why Are You Not Married?”
No matter how much you try to mind your business, some nosy people will not let you be, especially nosy family members, colleagues, and not too close friends. They always want to know what is going on in your life especially your love life. While some people ask out of concern and love, a lot of them ask out of mere meddling in your business. I wonder why they are never concerned about your business, education or your life goals, but always about you are dating. This isn’t funny because it constitutes pressure, no matter how subtle, especially if you are due for marriage. Some people need to learn boundaries…
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5 Things You Must Do Before Proposing to a Woman
So you’ve been in a relationship with a woman of your dreams and you can’t wait to drop down on one knee to pop the question, “Will you marry me?” While this is a good and romantic thing to do, you wanna be sure that you get the best result out of your plan, and that’s why you must know or do some things before you propose to your woman. Read below the 5 things you must do before proposing to a woman: Be sure you wanna be with her I know you’re thinking if it’s possible for a man to propose to a woman without being sure if…
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45 Really Cute Pre-wedding Photo Shoot Ideas for 2019
Love is beautiful, and weddings are a celebration of love. Pre-wedding photo shoot has become one of the highlights of every wedding preparation today, and it seems like a wedding is not complete without gorgeous pictures to feed our eyes on. For 2019 couples who want to come out with the best set of pre-wedding photos ever, here are 45 absolutely gorgeous pre-wedding photo shoot ideas to try: They are beautiful, aren’t they? Feel free to replicate these poses in your photos and be assured of a great outcome!
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7 Things Never to Say to a Woman Going Through a Breakup
Not everyone will marry their first love because not every first relationship will lead to marriage. Some of us will have to kiss some frogs before meeting our prince charming. The earlier you understand that not every relationship will last forever, the better you’ll be able to handle breakups. But the truth still remains that breakups could be painful especially if you really love the person. So, at one time or another, we’ll find ourselves comforting someone who is going through a painful breakup. And in a bid to do this, we innocently use some words we think should make them feel better, not knowing we are making things worse…
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The Very Reason He Hasn’t Proposed
Except it’s by choice and agreement, no lady wants to be in a ‘methuselah‘ relationship. That is, a long term relationship with no marriage in sight. Everything that has a beginning is usually expected to have an end. Relationship is just like a journey starting with love and with marriage as the destination. So you’ve been dating this guy for months…years… now, and he’s not popping the question or even saying anything about marriage, and you’re not only ready but also wondering why he hasn’t popped the question or making plans to. Well, here is the only reason – HE’S NOT READY! Yes, he’s not ready. “Not ready for what?”…
