There’s something haunting about the middle of the night when you can’t sleep because your mind won’t stop racing. When you’re lying next to someone who’s supposed to be your partner, your best friend, your safe space, but instead you feel lonelier than you’ve ever felt in your life. That’s when the real thoughts come …
Love & Relationships
There are times when your spouse annoys you so much that you’d wonder if you had not married the wrong person. No kidding. We all have moments when we look at our spouse and think, “Really? This is what I signed up for?” I experience it often; I won’t even lie. But there’s a difference …
Let’s not even pretend like physical touch isn’t a big deal in marriage. It is, fam! Holding hands, a warm hug from behind while you’re making dinner, forehead kisses before work, just lying skin to skin in silence, and of course, the main thing, sex. Touch matters. A whole lot. I’m not here to shame …
A lot of divorced men suddenly become marriage experts after their wives leave them. These are the same men who couldn’t remember their anniversary, never helped with the kids, treated their wives like live-in housekeepers for years, and acted like their wives needed the marriage more than they did. But the moment those divorce papers …
Some husbands don’t want a wife. They want a mother they can sleep with. Yeah, I said it. Uncomfortable? Good. Because too many women are out here wiping grown noses and being praised for being “strong” while their husbands act like oversized man-children. How do you know if your man has started calling you babe …
Last month, I attended a friend’s birthday party, and I watched a man charm every single person, well, mostly ladies, in the room. He was cracking jokes with them, feeling himself, complimenting women on their outfits, and being all animated and flirty with everyone he talked to. Meanwhile, his wife was sitting right there looking …
Most men don’t wake up one morning and just file for divorce. Nah. They prep for it. Like strategically. Because ending a marriage isn’t just about walking out; it’s about positioning things so that when they finally do, they look like the innocent one. And you? You’re left confused, hurt, pained, and blamed for the …