• how to make him respect you
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    You don’t often come across articles on how to make a man respect you. Do you? But there are unlimited books and articles on how to make a man love you or love you more. This is because we’ve been fed with the stereotype that ‘men want respect, women want love’. There are even a bunch of books bearing that title. I don’t know about you, but for me, there’s no love without respect. I feel loved and honoured when I’m respected. Why do you need to know how to make him respect you? Because a man may love you and not respect you because they’ve also been made to…

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    Top 5 Reasons Why You Should Do a Pre-Wedding Photo Shoot

    Love is beautiful, and weddings are a celebration of love. Pre-wedding photo shoot has recently become a trend and now it seems a wedding is not complete without pre-wedding photos to grace our eyes. Although this trend has been in existence from way back, but definitely not in the way it’s done now. Back then, couples visit a photo studio to have one or two shots with boring poses; but now, outdoor photography with creative poses have taken over. While some people welcome the trend with both hands, some couldn’t be bothered, some think it’s a waste of time and resources, and some others don’t understand why they should have…

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    Is Love Enough? 5 Things that Make Love Work

    Is love ever enough?  Some say love is enough, some others argue that love is not enough. I’ll say it depends on individual’s definition of love. For the purpose of this post, let’s agree that love is that deep feeling of affection and attraction you have towards someone. A lot of people assume that this should be enough. After all, if you care about someone, it’s natural that you treat them right and make them happy. But this isn’t as simple as it sounds. Many relationships and marriages crash. It happens everywhere, all around us. This isn’t always as a result of lack of love. It’s not strange to find…

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    One Thing You Need to Stop Doing in Your Relationship to Be Extremely Happy

    I remember feeling offended by what hubby said one day. So I got moody, gave laconic replies to his words, and frowned all over the place. In my mind, I expected him to know that I was hurting, so I went on like that for hours while he carried on normally. He probably thought I wanted to be calm that day. Then I remembered teaching at Sunday school that assumption is the lowest level of knowledge and a precursor to poor communication. I put my teaching into practice and told him we needed to talk. I poured out my mind to him, he did the same, and we were able…

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    8 Things Never to Say to Your Partner During a Quarrel

    Conflicts are normal occurrences in every relationship/marriage. Conflicts cannot be prevented, they can only be managed. One of the ways to manage conflicts is not to say things that could hurt your partner in ways that will do an irreparable damage to your relationship. Conflicts will come and go, but words spoken during conflicts (even if you didn’t mean them) could linger for long, and even lead to the end of a relationship. I learnt this the hard way, and I shared my story here. It is usually hard to set things right after saying mean and hurtful things to each other during a fight. It is better you do…

  • how to make him miss you
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    How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

    Yes, he loves you. And yes, you love him too. But you can probably relate to sometimes taking each other for granted because you are all up in each other’s face all the time. I mean, if you cannot relate, you probably wouldn’t be reading this right now. You are most likely reading this because you want to learn how to make him miss you like crazy. You have come to the right place and I agree with you; it is human nature to want to be desired and cherished by the ones we also desire and cherished. And let’s be honest; it is sometimes, more difficult for women because…

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    Top Ten Reasons Women Turn Down a Marriage Proposal

    You would think that every lady who is in a relationship would be excited to say ‘yes’ when her man pops the question. But this isn’t always the case. While men have reasons why they haven’t proposed to their women yet, women also have reasons for turning down their men’s proposals. These are the usually the top ten reasons women turn down marriage proposals: Ten Reasons Women Turn Down a Marriage Proposal 1. It’s too soon It’s not just men who love to take their time before taking a relationship to the next level. Some women don’t want to be rushed as well. Timing is different for every lady. What…

  • how to know if he is wasting your time
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    How to Know If He is Serious with You or Wasting Your Time

    At different times, depending on the values and principles we hold dear, we may want different things from different relationships.  This is usually not an issue when we are with a man who is on the same page with us; the problem is that this is not always the case. If we want friendship with benefits or we want something casual, then it really doesn’t matter if he is playing us or not. However, if we want something serious, then it is important that we know if he is serious. So, how do you know if he is serious with you or a time-waster?   If you are second-guessing your…

  • questions to ask your partner before getting married
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    The Most Important Question to Ask Your Partner before Getting Married

    Even though the number of marriages ending up in divorce is on the increase, marriage is still a desirable thing and love is one of the gifts of life. Perhaps you’re in a relationship and you can’t wait to walk down the aisle with the love of your life. While this is a beautiful thing, it’s crucial to be sure of some things. There are many questions you should ask your intending spouse to know each other well and be sure you’re headed towards the same direction. However, in my few years of dating, marriage, listening to married people, and helping people to deal with marital issues, I realize that…

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    Romantic and Creative Ways to Say Sorry to Your Partner

    Sometimes, we get really stuck on how to say sorry when we wrong our partner, and we always want to make it real, different from the usual “sorry” just to let our partners know we’re truly sorry and to make them know they are special. If you need ideas on other ways to say sorry to your loved one, here are 12 ideas to try: WAYS TO SAY SORRY 1.Send a text Send a text telling him/her how much they mean to you and how you do not mean to hurt him/her. Also, tell them you love them so much and that whatever happened will not happen again. Make sure you…

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    Why Men Lose Interest in a Relationship

    They say men are adventurous and love the thrill of the chase. Oh well, while some women can sustain a man’s interest in them for as long as they want, some women act in ways that make a man want to pull away from them. This isn’t to say that men don’t have minds of their own and can’t decide to become disinterested in a relationship for whatever reasons. However, you’ll know that in this case, their decision has nothing to do with your actions. But what are those acts of yours that can make him loose interest in being with you? Below are 6 things that can make a…

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    Creative and Romantic Ways to Make the First Move on your Spouse

    A fun s*x life is one of the pillars of a strong marriage. Even though married couples can establish intimacy in different ways apart from s*x, s*x is still one of the most important ways to establish spiritual, emotional, and physical intimacy in marriage. The fact that some couples no longer enjoy s*x doesn’t change this fact. Getting creative with making the first move is one of the ways to have a fabulous s*x life. However, most of us can relate to either being raised to be conservative and are shy to come out boldly to claim what is rightfully ours or we don’t want to look desperate. For women,…

  • how to make your partner laugh
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    Have you ever experienced the fulfillment of being the reason your partner is laughing their hearts out? I have. And the feeling is so satisfying. Whether you’re in a relationship or marriage, making your partner happy should be one of your duties as a lover. This doesn’t have to cost a dime. You don’t always have to buy a gift to make your partner happy. Money is good, but it’s not everything. Below are 8 Free ways to make your partner laugh heartily: 1. Share a comedy skit you know they’d love If you understand your partner and what makes them tick, sending a comedy skit they can relate with…

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    How to Make Physical Intimacy More Fun in Your Marriage

    Doing the same thing over and over again with the same person in the same place could get boring. This is why many conclude that physical intimacy in marriage is boring. Read>>Top ten reasons most couples no longer enjoy intimacy. Isaac Newton’s first law of motion states that, “an object will remain at rest unless acted upon by an external force. That is, objects will remain in their state of motion unless a force acts to change the motion.” You see? That means nothing will change except you enforce a change. If you want intimacy between you and your spouse to be top notch, then you’ve got to shake things…

  • how to win over your man's family
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    How to Win Over Your Man’s Family

    Getting along with a man’s family is such a big deal, especially for men who come from a close-knit family. You have to feel welcomed and be a part of them. This isn’t always a walk in the park for various reasons. I am of the opinion that it is the man’s family’s decision to love or accept you. However, you can also influence their decision in some ways. Below are tips that could help you win over your man’s family: 1. Be yourself Be original. Nothing beats originality. Don’t try to be someone else to make an impression. If you are jovial, don’t stop being jovial when you are…