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    The Most Painful but Important Lesson I’ve Learnt in Marriage

    No matter how much you know or write about relationship (just like me), there are some things you’ll still have to learn from personal experiences for them to stick. Marriage is an institution of constant learning, unlearning, and relearning a lot of things. While I’ve learned a lot of things in my few years of marriage, one lesson sticks most. It’s so indelible in my memory, and I keep remembering it each time I’m about to make the same mistake that led to learning the lesson.   Why? Because I learned it painfully. I hate to remember the events that led to the quarrel which gave me the most painful…

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    Why Most Couples No Longer Enjoy Physical Intimacy

    Have you heard people say that marital intimacy is boring? Like, being intimate with one person becomes less enjoyable with time. If this holds true, then every couple should go on a cheating spree. Since it’s not everyone that is cheating on their spouses, then there are couples that still enjoy being intimate. Why are some couples no longer enjoying intimacy? Let me state that intimacy will not always be great between a couple, but this shouldn’t be the norm. Here are the top 10 reasons some couples no longer enjoy intimacy: #1 The chase has ended There’s a motivation that comes from the desire to own something, but when…

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    20 Signs that You’ve Become Dickmatized

    Dickmatized = d*ck + hypnotized. Sounds funny, right? But it’s so not. Really. It’s used to explain a situation whereby a lady is obsessed with a man’s D because the sex is so good, and this makes her to lose her sense of reasoning. In short, she takes unusual decisions or behaves irrationally under the influence of the D or she starts catching feelings for a man while in actual sense, it’s for the D.   Below are signs that you’ve become dickmatized: #1 You know he’s not good for you but you can’t leave him because he’s great between the sheets. #2 He constantly treats you lesser than you…

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    How to Keep Him Interested and Make Him Fall in Love Over and Over Again

    They say men are adventurous in nature and they love the thrill of the chase. Oh well. What happens when the chase ends and you start dating or even get married? How then can you keep him interested or sustain his interest without even making so much of an effort?   Below are helpful tips on how to keep him constantly interested in you:   #1 Have an interesting life If your life isn’t interesting, why would anyone want to be a part of it? I’m not saying you should be everywhere or have it all but the question is, do you love your life? Do you have a passion…

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    Top Ten Secrets/Habits of Truly Happy Couples

    Happy couples make a happy marriage. It’s one thing to be married, it’s another thing to be happily married, and another thing to be truly happy married. Yes, some people feign happiness. But you can’t successfully pretend to be happy. People can always tell if you are genuinely happy or not. What makes some couples truly happy and others unhappy? It’s all in what they do! Just like a seed, a relationship/marriage cannot survive on its own except it’s watered and tendered. Below are top ten habits/secrets of happy couples:   #1 They are playful Laughter symbolizes happiness. Too much of seriousness stifles happiness in marriage. Happy couples play and…

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    10 Things Women Do on a Date that Put Men Off

    Yes, it’s a date, not a job interview. You should be yourself and be free. However, while enjoying your liberty, you might be pissing your date off without knowing. Below are TEN things that ladies do that put men off on a date: #1 Snapchatting You are probably a snapchat queen who can’t wait to share her day with others, but a date isn’t just about you. It’s about you and your date. To get to know more about each other or enjoy each other’s company. Even if you’re bored, you can nicely bring the date to an end instead of ignoring your date and snapchatting.   #2 Taking selfies…

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    20 Things Smart Women Don’t Do in Love Relationship

    I’ll just cut to the chase. Because I know why you are here – to know what smart women don’t do in love relationship. First, who is a smart woman?  Dash off to read the 7 habits of a highly smart woman, so that you’ll know what this is all about. ……… Welcome back. So, what are those things smart women do not do in love relationship?  #1 They don’t beg for love or beg to be loved. #2 They don’t fight other women over a man. #3 They don’t go into a relationship looking for worth. #4 They don’t dim their light for a man to shine. #5 They…

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    Unrequited Love: Why You Love Someone Who Doesn’t Love You

    Falling in love with someone is such a beautiful experience because love is one of the amazing gifts of life. However, love is much more beautiful if the feeling is mutual. Nothing is as emotionally draining and frustrating as loving someone who doesn’t love you in return. Unrequited love. It hurts. So much. Sometimes you wonder how and why anyone would love someone who doesn’t love them in return. Truth is, apart from the fact that our hearts could play a fast one on us (because emotional matters are tricky), one MAJOR reason you’d keep loving someone who doesn’t love you in return is because -you’re not in love with…

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    #1 Mistake New Wives Make

    Yes, I wrote Top #3 Mistakes Women Make in Marriage. But this one I’m writing is particular to new wives. Even though I’ve always known it and shared it somehow in blog posts or in my social media articles, I’m compelled to write a blog post about it today. Because within a week, I saw how this mistake new wives make can tear families apart.   What’s this #1 mistake new wives make? >>Acting like a superwoman and doing all the household chores alone. Studies keep showing that women do most of the household chores despite working outside the home. A study on sex roles revealed that unequal division of…

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    8 Qualities of an Attractive Woman

    What makes a woman attractive? Being attractive goes beyond good looks, even though it could start from there. Attractiveness has more to do with what is inside of you, what you think of yourself and others, and your perception of things. In short, it’s about your personality. Thus, there are a combination of attributes that make a woman attractive. 8 Qualities of an Attractive Woman #1 Smiling Smiling makes you look more beautiful, friendly and approachable. It makes people feel at ease with you. No one wants to stay around someone whose face is all creased up in a frown.   #2 Good sense of humour Anyone who has the…

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    50 Reasons Why I Love You List

    Why should you even care about a ‘reasons why I love you list’? Should there be reasons why we love our partners? Oh yes! Having a ‘reasons why I love you list’ will not only help you to appreciate your partner’s amazing qualities and their impact in your life, it’ll also help you to reassure them of your love. Here is a list of ’50 Reasons Why I Love You’ to inspire you: 1. I love you because you make me happy. 2. Your love warms me. Makes me feel good. 3. You complete me, with you, I’m perfect. 4. You support me always. 5. You love and accept me…

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    Hilarious Questions to Ask Your Partner to Instantly Change their Bad Mood

    I’ve not met a single soul who doesn’t want to be happy in life. But while we make effort to ensure our happiness, sometimes life gets in the way, and we end up in a bad mood or with a bad day. If your partner (spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, fiancee..) is having a bad day, asking them these funny questions could help them out of their bad mood. If you are the one who is having a bad day, you can tell them to ask you these hilarious questions as well. Also, if you just want to have a fun time together, ask these questions. Enjoy! HILARIOUS QUESTIONS TO ASK…

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    How to Know if He’s Using You to Catch Fun

    People date for different reasons. I get it. It’d be wrong to assume that everyone dates for love. So, yes, some people date for the sole purpose of having frequent romps. If this is why you’re in a relationship, this article isn’t for you. Sorry. 🙏 But if you want a relationship where you want to love and be loved in return, respected, and treated like the queen that you are, then you’ll want to be sure that you’re on the same page with the person you’re dating, and that he’s not using you to have a good time. You know what I’m saying?😉 I bet you do. So, how…

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    How to Be a Woman a Man is Afraid to Lose

    Women have always been the ones afraid to lose their men, and this is why some men think they are doing a woman a favour by dating or marrying her. Let’s be honest, the society hasn’t been exactly fair to women in their expectations of us. Women are considered incomplete without a man to call their own, no matter how successful they might be in their careers. People are always interested in who a woman is dating and not dating. But I encourage women to swap positions, and be the ones a man is afraid to lose. It’s such a great position to be in. Don’t get me wrong, I’m…

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    Why He Can Never Cheat On Me & I, On Him

    Needless to say, cheating is one of the greatest and commonest deal breakers in marriage. It’s one of the leading causes of relationship breakup and divorce. The American Psychological Association (APA) discovered that infidelity in the United States accounted for 20-40 percent of divorces. Cheating leads to broken trust, and what is a relationship/marriage without trust? That’s why cheating never leaves a relationship the same. Even when the guilty partner is forgiven, he/she needs to work hard to earn their partner’s trust again. Another painful thing about infidelity is that the partner who is cheated on feels like he/she is not enough. “Am I not enough for you?” is the…