So, I’ve been binge reading Sherry Argov’s Why Men Marry B*tches, and even though I don’t agree with everything in the book, it’s been a worthy read. I’m preparing a post on Relationship Quotes from Sherry Argov’s Why Men Marry Bitches, but I decided to put this short one up before I’m done with it. In relationship principle 20, Sherry says, “As soon as a woman hands a man a more serious commitment on a silver platter, he’ll be reluctant to take it.” She opines that there are things women do innocently at the inception of a relationship to ”move things along” and try to make a man commit, but…

One of the top ten reasons most couples no longer enjoy being intimate is boredom and inability to try new things. Getting it on in the same location every time could get boring. To spice things up, one needs to be adventurous, spontaneous, and be open-minded. And one way to ensure this is to get it on with your spouse in different locations. You feelin me?   So, here’s a list of 30 fun places to get it on with your spouse: Warning: Make sure there’s enough privacy lest you be arrested for indecent exposure. Ensure safety as well. 1. In the bedroom (of course) 2. On the bedroom floor…

No matter how much you know or write about relationship (just like me), there are some things you’ll still have to learn from personal experiences for them to stick. Marriage is an institution of constant learning, unlearning, and relearning a lot of things. While I’ve learned a lot of things in my few years of marriage, one lesson sticks most. It’s so indelible in my memory, and I keep remembering it each time I’m about to make the same mistake that led to learning the lesson.   Why? Because I learned it painfully. I hate to remember the events that led to the quarrel which gave me the most painful…

Have you heard people say that marital intimacy is boring? Like, being intimate with one person becomes less enjoyable with time. If this holds true, then every couple should go on a cheating spree. Since it’s not everyone that is cheating on their spouses, then there are couples that still enjoy being intimate. Why are some couples no longer enjoying intimacy? Let me state that intimacy will not always be great between a couple, but this shouldn’t be the norm. Here are the top 10 reasons some couples no longer enjoy intimacy: #1 The chase has ended There’s a motivation that comes from the desire to own something, but when…

Dickmatized = d*ck + hypnotized. Sounds funny, right? But it’s so not. Really. It’s used to explain a situation whereby a lady is obsessed with a man’s D because the sex is so good, and this makes her to lose her sense of reasoning. In short, she takes unusual decisions or behaves irrationally under the influence of the D or she starts catching feelings for a man while in actual sense, it’s for the D.   Below are signs that you’ve become dickmatized: #1 You know he’s not good for you but you can’t leave him because he’s great between the sheets. #2 He constantly treats you lesser than you…

They say men are adventurous in nature and they love the thrill of the chase. Oh well. What happens when the chase ends and you start dating or even get married? How then can you keep him interested or sustain his interest without even making so much of an effort?   Below are helpful tips on how to keep him constantly interested in you:   #1 Have an interesting life If your life isn’t interesting, why would anyone want to be a part of it? I’m not saying you should be everywhere or have it all but the question is, do you love your life? Do you have a passion…

Yes, it’s a date, not a job interview. You should be yourself and be free. However, while enjoying your liberty, you might be pissing your date off without knowing. Below are TEN things that ladies do that put men off on a date: #1 Snapchatting You are probably a snapchat queen who can’t wait to share her day with others, but a date isn’t just about you. It’s about you and your date. To get to know more about each other or enjoy each other’s company. Even if you’re bored, you can nicely bring the date to an end instead of ignoring your date and snapchatting.   #2 Taking selfies…

I’ll just cut to the chase. Because I know why you are here – to know what smart women don’t do in love relationship. First, who is a smart woman?  Dash off to read the 7 habits of a highly smart woman, so that you’ll know what this is all about. ……… Welcome back. So, what are those things smart women do not do in love relationship?  #1 They don’t beg for love or beg to be loved. #2 They don’t fight other women over a man. #3 They don’t go into a relationship looking for worth. #4 They don’t dim their light for a man to shine. #5 They…