Olubunmi Mabel - Live and Love....

Your gut feelings about people are usually right, especially for us women. But unfortunately, we’re taught to be warm and polite, to give people the benefit of the doubt, to make excuses for behavior that makes us uncomfortable. We’re told we’re “too sensitive” or “overthinking” when we notice red flags. So we ignore our instincts, …

There’s nothing wrong with being cheap when it comes to your budget. I’m all for finding great deals, shopping sales, and stretching your money as far as possible. But there’s a big difference between being budget-conscious and looking cheap. You can spend $50 on an outfit and look like a million bucks, or you can …

Marriage is supposed to be your safe space. The one place where you can be vulnerable enough to express your feelings, and know that you’ll be heard and respected. But what happens when the person who’s supposed to protect your heart is the one slowly chipping away at your confidence? Emotional manipulation doesn’t always look …

You ever wake up one day and think, “Is this it?” Like, you’re doing things, but nothing is moving. You’re busy, but not fulfilled. You’re surrounded, but still feel alone. You have plans, but no real progress. You’re tired, but don’t even know what you’re tired of. That “stuck” feeling is frustrating, and most times, …

Who doesn’t want to be blessed? Absolutely no one. We all want to be blessed. Life is hard; we need blessings to make life enjoyable. Some of us keep praying for open doors, but we’re the ones holding the keys and refusing to turn the lock. I know the devil be working overtime, but it’s …

It’s the dream of every woman who wants to be a mom to have a man who will be a great father to her kids. So, you don’t just want a good husband, you also want a good father. In fact, they say one of the greatest gifts you can give your children as a …

I’m excited to write about this topic because it’s not only eye-opening but also essential for anyone who wants to build a lasting marriage. I do, and I’m guilty of some of the things I’ll be sharing here. So, I’m not trying to be judgmental here. You might think you’re a good wife because you …

Honestly, this is one of those topics we don’t talk about enough, especially as women. We’re taught to fight for our marriages, to pray, to submit, to be patient, to endure. And yes, some of those things matter. But what do you do when the woman you’ve become no longer fits the marriage you’re in? …