• discover your hidden potentials
    Lifestyle,  Personal Development

    How to Discover Your Hidden Potentials

    Are you experiencing self-doubts? Or have you ever experienced self-doubt? Well, welcome to the program… it is more common than you think. Many of us can relate to self-doubts because we don’t think we are as amazing as we really are, when in fact, we are just cutting ourselves short. According to a popular quote by Marianne Williamson, “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a…

  • reasons women turn down a marriage proposal
    Love & Relationships

    Top Ten Reasons Women Turn Down a Marriage Proposal

    You would think that every lady who is in a relationship would be excited to say ‘yes’ when her man pops the question. But this isn’t always the case. While men have reasons why they haven’t proposed to their women yet, women also have reasons for turning down their men’s proposals. These are the usually the top ten reasons women turn down marriage proposals: Ten Reasons Women Turn Down a Marriage Proposal 1. It’s too soon It’s not just men who love to take their time before taking a relationship to the next level. Some women don’t want to be rushed as well. Timing is different for every lady. What…

  • habits of beautiful women
    Lifestyle,  Personal Development

    Top 12 Habits of Beautiful Women 

    I’m not even going to deceive you by saying, ‘beauty comes from within’, ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’ and any other clichéd expressions we use in pretending that physical appearance isn’t a big deal.  While beauty means different things to different people, most of us can tell when a woman is pleasing to the eyes.  Although genetics play a crucial role in our physical characteristics, what we do to stay beautiful is much more important.  Each time I engage in some beauty habits, I see vivid results, and this proves that what you do with what you have is more important than what you have.  What are…

  • how to know if he is wasting your time
    Love & Relationships

    How to Know If He is Serious with You or Wasting Your Time

    At different times, depending on the values and principles we hold dear, we may want different things from different relationships.  This is usually not an issue when we are with a man who is on the same page with us; the problem is that this is not always the case. If we want friendship with benefits or we want something casual, then it really doesn’t matter if he is playing us or not. However, if we want something serious, then it is important that we know if he is serious. So, how do you know if he is serious with you or a time-waster?   If you are second-guessing your…

  • questions to ask your partner before getting married
    Love & Relationships

    The Most Important Question to Ask Your Partner before Getting Married

    Even though the number of marriages ending up in divorce is on the increase, marriage is still a desirable thing and love is one of the gifts of life. Perhaps you’re in a relationship and you can’t wait to walk down the aisle with the love of your life. While this is a beautiful thing, it’s crucial to be sure of some things. There are many questions you should ask your intending spouse to know each other well and be sure you’re headed towards the same direction. However, in my few years of dating, marriage, listening to married people, and helping people to deal with marital issues, I realize that…

  • ways to say sorry
    Love & Relationships

    Romantic and Creative Ways to Say Sorry to Your Partner

    Sometimes, we get really stuck on how to say sorry when we wrong our partner, and we always want to make it real, different from the usual “sorry” just to let our partners know we’re truly sorry and to make them know they are special. If you need ideas on other ways to say sorry to your loved one, here are 12 ideas to try: WAYS TO SAY SORRY 1.Send a text Send a text telling him/her how much they mean to you and how you do not mean to hurt him/her. Also, tell them you love them so much and that whatever happened will not happen again. Make sure you…

  • Love & Relationships

    Why Men Lose Interest in a Relationship

    They say men are adventurous and love the thrill of the chase. Oh well, while some women can sustain a man’s interest in them for as long as they want, some women act in ways that make a man want to pull away from them. This isn’t to say that men don’t have minds of their own and can’t decide to become disinterested in a relationship for whatever reasons. However, you’ll know that in this case, their decision has nothing to do with your actions. But what are those acts of yours that can make him loose interest in being with you? Below are 6 things that can make a…

  • make the first move
    Love & Relationships

    Creative and Romantic Ways to Make the First Move on your Spouse

    A fun s*x life is one of the pillars of a strong marriage. Even though married couples can establish intimacy in different ways apart from s*x, s*x is still one of the most important ways to establish spiritual, emotional, and physical intimacy in marriage. The fact that some couples no longer enjoy s*x doesn’t change this fact. Getting creative with making the first move is one of the ways to have a fabulous s*x life. However, most of us can relate to either being raised to be conservative and are shy to come out boldly to claim what is rightfully ours or we don’t want to look desperate. For women,…

  • toni morrison quotes
    Book and Movie Review,  Lifestyle

    45 Toni Morrison’s Quotes on Writing, Love, and Life to Inspire You

    Born Chloe Ardelia Wofford, Toni Morrison, Nobel laureate and Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist died on Monday from complications of Pneumonia at the age of 88. Toni Morrison is one of the most brilliant minds that ever walked the earth. Hers was a life well-lived. Even though she has departed the world physically, her impact will forever be felt, from generation to generation. One of her literary legacies are her inspiring quotes on different facets of life – writing, love, feminism, freedom, etc. Below are 45 of Toni Morrison’s Quotes on Writing, Life, and Love to Inspire You Toni Morrison Quotes  Writing ”I think some aspects of writing can be taught. Obviously,…

  • how to be confident
    Lifestyle,  Personal Development

    How to be a Confident Shy Person : Why You Shouldn’t Bother about Your Shyness

    My post on how I overcame the shyness has been one of the most-read posts on my blog. As a matter of fact, it has been re-pinned on Pinterest more than 1,000 times! That’s a viral pin. That means a lot of people can relate to shyness and its many effects. I poured out my mind in that article and sometimes I feel like there’s nothing more to write on the subject. But life is all about learning, unlearning and relearning. These days, I ask myself, when is shyness really a problem? Because we all can’t be outspoken, gregarious, or be the life of the party. When should we really…

  • how to make your partner laugh
    Love & Relationships


    Have you ever experienced the fulfillment of being the reason your partner is laughing their hearts out? I have. And the feeling is so satisfying. Whether you’re in a relationship or marriage, making your partner happy should be one of your duties as a lover. This doesn’t have to cost a dime. You don’t always have to buy a gift to make your partner happy. Money is good, but it’s not everything. Below are 8 Free ways to make your partner laugh heartily: 1. Share a comedy skit you know they’d love If you understand your partner and what makes them tick, sending a comedy skit they can relate with…

  • make physical intimacy more fun
    Love & Relationships

    How to Make Physical Intimacy More Fun in Your Marriage

    Doing the same thing over and over again with the same person in the same place could get boring. This is why many conclude that physical intimacy in marriage is boring. Read>>Top ten reasons most couples no longer enjoy intimacy. Isaac Newton’s first law of motion states that, “an object will remain at rest unless acted upon by an external force. That is, objects will remain in their state of motion unless a force acts to change the motion.” You see? That means nothing will change except you enforce a change. If you want intimacy between you and your spouse to be top notch, then you’ve got to shake things…

  • how to win over your man's family
    Love & Relationships

    How to Win Over Your Man’s Family

    Getting along with a man’s family is such a big deal, especially for men who come from a close-knit family. You have to feel welcomed and be a part of them. This isn’t always a walk in the park for various reasons. I am of the opinion that it is the man’s family’s decision to love or accept you. However, you can also influence their decision in some ways. Below are tips that could help you win over your man’s family: 1. Be yourself Be original. Nothing beats originality. Don’t try to be someone else to make an impression. If you are jovial, don’t stop being jovial when you are…

  • things not to sacrifice in a relationship
    Love & Relationships

    7 Things You Should Never Sacrifice in a Relationship

    Compromises are inevitable in relationships. We would sometimes have to let go of some things or shift grounds in order to accommodate our partner. However, there are certain things you should never ever sacrifice in a relationship, and sometimes, marriage. Seven of these things are: 1. Your passion We all have something we are passionate about. Your passion is what gives you life and makes life interesting and worth living. It is what fills your heart with warmth and set your soul on fire. Just think, what is life and who are you without it? And if a relationship demands that you give up your passion, should you be in…

  • dating/relationship tips for teen girls
    Love & Relationships


    According to developmental Psychologist, Eric Erikson, teen years is a time of identity formation and desire for intimacy. So, it’s not out of place for you as a teen girl to desire to love and be loved by someone. Success in handling this stage of life leads to healthy identity formation and good relationships while failure could lead to identity crisis, heartbreaks, inferiority complex, and depression. It’s imperative for you as a teenage girl to be armed with relevant information that will help you to stay on top of your game when it comes to dating/relationship. Because wrong decisions in this stage of life could spell doom for your future…