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    Love & Relationships

    How to Have a Fun (First) Date

    My idea of a fun date is good food and good conversation with someone I fancy. But, that’s just me. Fun is relative, also, a fun date. A first date is the first step to getting to know a prospect better. Although no one plans on having a bad date, life happens and things don’t always go as wished or expected. Even if it wouldn’t lead to something, having fun on a date is highly desirable. The following tips will save you from having a terrible date: #1 The other party First of all things, ensure you are going on a date with someone whose company you enjoy or likely…

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    13 Mistakes B*tches Don’t Make With a New Guy (from Sherry Argov’s Why Men Marry Bitches)

    So, I’ve been binge reading Sherry Argov’s Why Men Marry B*tches, and even though I don’t agree with everything in the book, it’s been a worthy read. I’m preparing a post on Relationship Quotes from Sherry Argov’s Why Men Marry Bitches, but I decided to put this short one up before I’m done with it. In relationship principle 20, Sherry says, “As soon as a woman hands a man a more serious commitment on a silver platter, he’ll be reluctant to take it.” She opines that there are things women do innocently at the inception of a relationship to ”move things along” and try to make a man commit, but…

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    30 Fun Places to Get It On With Your Spouse

    One of the top ten reasons most couples no longer enjoy being intimate is boredom and inability to try new things. Getting it on in the same location every time could get boring. To spice things up, one needs to be adventurous, spontaneous, and be open-minded. And one way to ensure this is to get it on with your spouse in different locations. You feelin me?   So, here’s a list of 30 fun places to get it on with your spouse: Warning: Make sure there’s enough privacy lest you be arrested for indecent exposure. Ensure safety as well. 1. In the bedroom (of course) 2. On the bedroom floor…

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    100+ Ways to Say I Love You

    You love your wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, lover etc. Awesome! But do they know how much you love them? While it’s important to show how much you love your significant other through your actions, it’s also important to express how you feel about them through your WORDS. Saying ‘I love you’ is great and can never become obsolete. However, a little creativity doesn’t hurt. Does it? That is why I’ve put together 100 ways to say ‘I love you’ to your lover. 100 Ways to Say I Love You 1. You’re my most favourite person in the world. 2. You’re the best thing that has ever happened to me.…

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    The Most Painful but Important Lesson I’ve Learnt in Marriage

    No matter how much you know or write about relationship (just like me), there are some things you’ll still have to learn from personal experiences for them to stick. Marriage is an institution of constant learning, unlearning, and relearning a lot of things. While I’ve learned a lot of things in my few years of marriage, one lesson sticks most. It’s so indelible in my memory, and I keep remembering it each time I’m about to make the same mistake that led to learning the lesson.   Why? Because I learned it painfully. I hate to remember the events that led to the quarrel which gave me the most painful…

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    Why Most Couples No Longer Enjoy Physical Intimacy

    Have you heard people say that marital intimacy is boring? Like, being intimate with one person becomes less enjoyable with time. If this holds true, then every couple should go on a cheating spree. Since it’s not everyone that is cheating on their spouses, then there are couples that still enjoy being intimate. Why are some couples no longer enjoying intimacy? Let me state that intimacy will not always be great between a couple, but this shouldn’t be the norm. Here are the top 10 reasons some couples no longer enjoy intimacy: #1 The chase has ended There’s a motivation that comes from the desire to own something, but when…

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    7 PRODUCTIVITY HACKS: Getting So Much Done in a Little Time

    Do you often feel like 24 hours isn’t enough for you? I do. Every single day! There’s so much to be done but time is always a villain. What then can one do since no one can have more than 24 hours in a day? Time is the only (limited) resource common to everyone on the planet. You can make more money but you can’t make more time. So, the best thing to do is to learn how to manage this limited resource. Everyone has the same number of hours. The difference is in how they spend it. This is what separates productive people from the lot.   If you…

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    Summer Bucket List Ideas 2019

    I don’t know about you but for me, I plan to enjoy this summer to the fullest. Why? Last winter was baaaaaad. So bad. For me and my family. The flu. The allergies. Jeez. It’s only fair that we make up for the bad winter by having a great summer. If you have decided to enjoy this summer by yourself, with your partner or with your family, and you want some summer bucket list ideas to try, I’ve got you. Here is a list of 50+ summer activities to include in your summer bucket list: 1. Go to the beach 2. Go on a cruise 3. Go on a road…

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    20 Signs that You’ve Become Dickmatized

    Dickmatized = d*ck + hypnotized. Sounds funny, right? But it’s so not. Really. It’s used to explain a situation whereby a lady is obsessed with a man’s D because the sex is so good, and this makes her to lose her sense of reasoning. In short, she takes unusual decisions or behaves irrationally under the influence of the D or she starts catching feelings for a man while in actual sense, it’s for the D.   Below are signs that you’ve become dickmatized: #1 You know he’s not good for you but you can’t leave him because he’s great between the sheets. #2 He constantly treats you lesser than you…

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    Love & Relationships

    How to Keep Him Interested and Make Him Fall in Love Over and Over Again

    They say men are adventurous in nature and they love the thrill of the chase. Oh well. What happens when the chase ends and you start dating or even get married? How then can you keep him interested or sustain his interest without even making so much of an effort?   Below are helpful tips on how to keep him constantly interested in you:   #1 Have an interesting life If your life isn’t interesting, why would anyone want to be a part of it? I’m not saying you should be everywhere or have it all but the question is, do you love your life? Do you have a passion…

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    Top Ten Secrets/Habits of Truly Happy Couples

    Happy couples make a happy marriage. It’s one thing to be married, it’s another thing to be happily married, and another thing to be truly happy married. Yes, some people feign happiness. But you can’t successfully pretend to be happy. People can always tell if you are genuinely happy or not. What makes some couples truly happy and others unhappy? It’s all in what they do! Just like a seed, a relationship/marriage cannot survive on its own except it’s watered and tendered. Below are top ten habits/secrets of happy couples:   #1 They are playful Laughter symbolizes happiness. Too much of seriousness stifles happiness in marriage. Happy couples play and…

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    10 Things Women Do on a Date that Put Men Off

    Yes, it’s a date, not a job interview. You should be yourself and be free. However, while enjoying your liberty, you might be pissing your date off without knowing. Below are TEN things that ladies do that put men off on a date: #1 Snapchatting You are probably a snapchat queen who can’t wait to share her day with others, but a date isn’t just about you. It’s about you and your date. To get to know more about each other or enjoy each other’s company. Even if you’re bored, you can nicely bring the date to an end instead of ignoring your date and snapchatting.   #2 Taking selfies…

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    Love & Relationships

    20 Things Smart Women Don’t Do in Love Relationship

    I’ll just cut to the chase. Because I know why you are here – to know what smart women don’t do in love relationship. First, who is a smart woman?  Dash off to read the 7 habits of a highly smart woman, so that you’ll know what this is all about. ……… Welcome back. So, what are those things smart women do not do in love relationship?  #1 They don’t beg for love or beg to be loved. #2 They don’t fight other women over a man. #3 They don’t go into a relationship looking for worth. #4 They don’t dim their light for a man to shine. #5 They…

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    30 Creative Things to Do to Get Over a Bad Day

    Nobody wakes up and hopes for a bad day. But life happens sometimes and we find ourselves dealing with a bad day. However, having a bad day is not as important as knowing what to do to get over the bad day. Below are 30 different and creative ways to get over a bad day: HOW TO GET OVER A BAD DAY #1 Encourage yourself Tell yourself that tomorrow will be better, and it’s one of those days. If you don’t encourage yourself, who will? Probably others will, but do it first.   #2 Play relaxing music Music has been discovered to influence moods greatly. Listen to songs that could…

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    Lifestyle,  Personal Development

    How to Stop Hating Mondays and Start Living Every Day Like It’s the Weekend

    Does TGIM (Thank God it’s Monday) ring a bell? Yes? No? It’s a NO for me, and for most people in the world as well. My proof? Instagram. What of TGIF (Thank God it’s Friday)? I bet you’re tempted to give a thumbs up. Like, ‘now you are talking!” Even the mere sight TGIF puts you in a good mood. See the Instagram hashtag for TGIF below: There are 34.3 million posts on TGIF while there are just 403k posts on TGIM! Needless to say, people hate Mondays. For different reasons.   Reasons People Hate Mondays 1. They hate their jobs. 2. They don’t like the people they work with.…