7 Habits Of Women Whose Husbands Are Crazy About Them

When people see articles like this, they expect the writer to share a secret formula to help them make their husbands crazy about them, but the truth is there is no secret formula.

Some writers may milk the desire for some secret formula by claiming to share mysteries, but I won’t.

Have you ever met a woman whose husband absolutely adores her?

The kind of love that’s evident in how he looks at her, supports her, and chooses her daily?

I am sure you must have.

They are rare but not so rare that you won’t have seen one or two.

The level of devotion and love they get from their husbands is not a result of luck.

In some areas like the community I grew up in, it could even be claimed that such a level of devotion and love can only be attained through bewitching him or giving him a love potion.

The truth is that a unique combination of the right habits, a positive mindset, and intentional actions makes a husband crazy about his wife.

Habits can make or break a relationship, and while every relationship is unique, women whose husbands are crazy about them often share certain similarities in their habits.

Here are the important habits that make these women irresistible to their partners.

7 Habits Of Women Whose Husbands Are Crazy About Them

1. They keep the romance alive

One day, I was talking to a lady and her mentality was so shocking.

According to her, ladies were wooed by men because ladies were the prize.

So, it was the man’s job to always be romantic because she had several other options if he wasn’t.

I was sad to see that a lady could hold such terrible beliefs during courtship.

I sincerely wonder what marriage to that sort of woman would feel like after several years.

Drab and very routine, I presume.

Anyway, women who have husbands who are crazy about them behave differently.

They understand that romance is not the duty of only the man.

They know that it is a shared duty, and because of this, they are instrumental in keeping the spark alive in the relationship.

They understand that love isn’t just in the grand gestures.

So, they don’t need to take their husbands off on a romantic trip or a weekend vacation on some island before they can be romantic.

The little things matter.

These women flirt with their husbands even after years of marriage.

They leave sweet notes for their husbands and are very involved in planning date nights and surprise dates.

They don’t wait for their husbands to initiate dates.

Neither do they wait for their husbands to initiate intimacy.

These women are bold and know when to make the first move, which keeps romance alive in the relationship.

By doing this, they make sure their husbands feel desired.

The truth is that men love it when they feel desired by their woman.

In fact, it is a surefire way of making him hooked on you.

These women understand that a lasting connection requires a lot of effort from both partners.

They are ready to put in the work to have a successful relationship.

2. They show genuine appreciation

I have never met anyone who hates being appreciated.

So, I think it is safe to say that everyone loves to be appreciated.

Men especially thrive on respect and appreciation. she noticed instantly when I got busier with my life

Any responsible husband invests efforts into ensuring his marriage is successful.

Sometimes, these efforts are really grand gestures.

Expensive gifts, expensive dates, and vacations.

These great efforts are usually easy to see and appreciate.

But most of the time, men do little things around the house and more often than not, they are the things that matter.

I used to tell my friends that just the ability to show up when you are needed is an important effort that should be appreciated.

Many people take things like this for granted until they don’t have access to it.

A friend who always confided in me about everything started complaining about how unavailable I have been recently.

She didn’t appreciate it while I was available, but when I got busier with my life, she noticed instantly.

My point is that husbands invest in their relationships in many ways, and they love to be appreciated for their efforts.

Women whose husbands adore them make it a habit to acknowledge their husbands’ efforts, even the little things—whether it’s thanking them for fixing something or praising them in front of others.

Gratitude makes him want to do more for his wife.

We even have a saying in my tribe: “Whoever appreciates the favors of yesterday will definitely get more in the future”.

So, when you see a woman with a husband who can do anything for her, don’t just say, “God, when?”

Instead, you should understand that she is enjoying the dividends of a positive habit and you should ask yourself if you have developed that habit.

Some ladies have already developed a terrible attitude of only appreciating big gestures.

It is a habit that doesn’t encourage people to do things for you.

Appreciate your husband from time to time and soon enough, you won’t need to think of manipulating him to get what you want from him.

All you need to do is ask.

Of course, that’s if what you are asking is something realistic.

3. They support and encourage their husbands

Appreciating your husband when he does something good is nice, but one of the distinct qualities of women whose husbands are crazy about them is their “ride or die” attitude to their marriage.

They are really supportive wives who usually have words of encouragement for their husbands when the going gets tough.

They actively support their husbands’ goals and dreams.

They cheer their husbands through successes and challenges.

One reason they command so much loyalty from their husbands is that they have proven to be their husbands’ biggest cheerleaders over time.

You need to be a supportive wife to make your husband crazy about you.

It’s fine to look attractive and beautiful, but ultimately, a man is more attracted to a supportive nature.

However, this doesn’t mean you should support him when he is doing something that is clearly evil.

As a loving wife, you also have to tell your husband the truth when he is not right.

And if you disagree with what he is doing, talk to him and share your misgivings with him.

You can’t just support your husband blindly even when it is your duty to support your husband.

4. They communicate clearly

I don’t know why people stereotype and say, “Women nag the most”.

I have seen several men who nag and I can tell you for free that it is an unattractive habit regardless of gender.

Clear and honest communication is the pillar of any successful relationship.

I have always held the position that if couples will just communicate clearly and honestly with each other, they will avoid more than ninety percent of the conflicts they have in relationships.

And the remaining ten percent will be dealt with quite easily by communicating with each other in a constructive manner.

Anyway, we have established that communicating clearly is an attractive attribute.

It is an attribute that women whose husbands are crazy about them possess.

Instead of nagging or making passive-aggressive comments, these women express their needs calmly.

They know that shouting doesn’t solve anything.

So, they approach issues calmly and constructively.

Apart from this, they listen actively to their husbands because they know that communication is a two-way street and they want to understand their husbands’ perspectives.

The most important reason why they have their husbands’ adoration is how they avoid unnecessary drama.

This is really laudable in a world where several females are self-acclaimed, unapologetic drama queens.

I have had dealings with a drama queen, and I can tell you for free that there is nothing attractive about it.

Unnecessary drama has a way of destroying what has been built already.

It can cause a man to get totally tired of his wife and spend more time away from her because he wants to avoid drama.

Being a drama queen is not great for your portfolio as a lady, single or married.

You need to work on that tendency or you may just realize that everyone you have ever loved leaves you at some point.

Instead of creating unnecessary drama, why don’t you try talking things out with your husband?

Try this more, and you will discover that you will experience more peace in your marriage.

As an added bonus, your husband will be more attracted to the change in you.

5. They have a wonderful sense of humor

One of the most important attributes I look out for in a woman is a good sense of humor.

This is because I am the kind of person who likes to joke around.

Some people have even called me “unserious.”

Anyway, it is not just a criterion that is peculiar to people like me who love to joke.

Men generally value women with a good sense of humor.

A sense of humor is an essential powerful factor in strengthening the bond in relationships.

People bond over shared laughter.

In marriage, the ability to joke and laugh is important because there are times when you truly need to laugh.

These women don’t take everything too seriously.

They know that life is serious enough, so they have learned to joke, tease playfully, and find joy in everyday moments.

Laughter is what keeps the marriage light and fun.

Of course, it will not be that way all the time.

But sometimes, learn to laugh and joke with your husband.

Humor really helps sometimes.

6. They respect their husbands’ individuality

After my first ever relationship, I didn’t want to ever have a romantic relationship anymore.

The problem was that she had her own idea of how a man should act and wanted to forcibly mold me into that image.

At first, I tried to act all interested, but at some point, the pressure became too much.

I just had to take a breather.

The truth is that sometimes, people hide it as wanting you to improve, but what they actually want is for you to fit an idealized image they have in their minds.

Being married and becoming one doesn’t mean that two partners should have the same personalities.

They still retain their personalities.

One person could be an outgoing person while the other could be an introvert.

The relationship can only work if they find a balance between their personalities.

It shouldn’t be the outgoing partner always pushing the introverted partner to change.

These women understand this, and so they don’t pressure their husbands into changing their personalities.

They only try to bring out the best in them.

They also know that they can’t monopolize their husbands’ free time and so they have learned to give their husbands space occasionally.

The truth is that an attractive woman is one who isn’t clingy and doesn’t put undue pressure on her husband.

For this kind of woman, most men would go the extra mile because she has shown that she is a rare gem.

A quick note to all wives: your husband doesn’t compare you with his hobbies.

Don’t try to compete with them.

The fact that he loves to watch football isn’t bad.

Let him do that during his free time.

The moment you start laying ultimatums down and making him choose between you and something, you may have set your value at the level of that particular hobby.

Resist the urge to ever do anything like this.

7. They keep growing together

A wife who wants to grow with her husband is a valuable woman.

She is not just looking out for herself; she is also trying to ensure that her husband develops as well.

Stagnation kills love.

So, never allow stagnancy in your marriage.

Whether it’s trying new experiences, traveling, or learning together, these women ensure their relationship evolves.

Apart from this, they also ensure that they grow with their husbands in their personal and professional lives.

Of course, this is not done by nagging or comparing him with his mates.

It is an intentional attempt to grow personally and also bring out the best in your husband as you grow.

A husband falls deeper in love when he sees his wife as a lifelong partner in growth.

Ultimately, a happy marriage isn’t about perfection but intention.

The women who have their husbands crazy about them aren’t following a secret formula; they’re simply nurturing love daily with authenticity, kindness, and a little bit of playfulness.

It’s not really hard to replicate this in your marriage.

All you need to do is put your mind to it and start working on whatever negative habits you may have developed already.

If you are ready to put in the work, you will get the results.