Cheating hurts, no doubt. But it hurts even more when the cheater, the very person who is supposed to be sorry, starts making excuses instead. Instead of standing in their mess and taking full responsibility, they twist the knife deeper with words that make you question your own feelings. They try to make you feel …
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We usually accuse our men of not being romantic, as if being romantic is something only one partner is responsible for. Being romantic isn’t just about what your husband does for you; it’s also about how you show love, attention, and intentional affection in ways that speak to him. And no, romance doesn’t always look …
Hey sis. Don’t close this page in anger. This post isn’t to shame you; it’s to wake you up. Because some of us are doing ourselves dirty in the name of love. And the worst part? We often know it’s nonsense, but we convince ourselves that “he’ll change,” “no one is perfect,” or “at least …
If you love your man, you sure want to keep him. And that’s fine. What you love, you naturally want to nurture and hold onto. But sometimes, in the process of trying to keep a man, we start accepting and doing things we shouldn’t. We start normalizing behaviors that are actually harmful in the name …
Words are not just words. They are windows into a person’s mindset. The things a man says while dating might seem like harmless opinions or jokes, but those words often reveal what marriage with him will feel like. Because once the wedding is over and real life begins, those casual statements turn into your daily …
Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre. It is not a rescue mission. Yet, many women walk into marriage hoping that the ring will change him. Spoiler alert: it won’t. If anything, marriage will expose what was already there and magnify it. Take it from a woman who has been married for eight years, seen enough stories, …
Choosing who to marry is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. It’s a decision that can either make or mar you. And unfortunately, many people walk into it with eyes full of butterflies and hearts full of hope, but very little clarity. I’ve seen it happen over and over. Smart, godly, ambitious people …