We all have fantasies… The things we dream of… The possessions we wish we had… The actions we wish to perform. Some fantasies are good and harmless while others are really dark. A man fantasizing about having a billion dollars is a harmless fantasy as long as he doesn’t plan on getting it through criminal …
Marriage
Trust and love… The most important ingredients in any relationship. We have somehow placed so much emphasis on love and so little on trust. Trust is needed much more when there is love. It is that feeling that makes you feel safe with your partner and vice versa. Without it, your love may just be …
One of the reasons people get married is to enjoy companionship, love, and care. You want to have a person who listens to you, cares for you, and pays attention to your feelings. Even if this wasn’t one of your goals when getting married, you’d still subconsciously expect it from your husband. Having a husband …
Watching your marriage deteriorate to a point where you suspect that your husband regrets marrying you is a harrowing experience. I mean, it’s normal for marriages to go through difficult seasons and for couples to experience unpleasant periods in their marital union. But getting to a point of regret about one’s spousal decision is a …
Words are powerful and can create a lasting impact. One thing I am certain of is that the significance and relevance of words hit harder when they come from someone you love. It is true that being married means being open and honest with your partner, being their advisor, friend, and confidant. However, it is …
I had an uncle who was a chronic womanizer and drunk. He was married with two lovely daughters and had a beautiful family, but unfortunately, his drinking didn’t make him last long. He died at the age of 45 in a car crash. What happened at his funeral is one of the craziest things I’ve …
Usually, cheaters will have you think they cheated by accident, like it just happened, and they never meant for it to happen. However, I believe that cheating is a decision that every cheater makes, either consciously or subconsciously. It’s sad, but it’s the truth. There is really nothing accidental about cheating. It’s not like slipping …