Marriage

A relationship is mostly about companionship, right? Two people just enjoying each other’s company, perhaps a little more than friends should. Of course, there are deeper reasons behind the choice of whom to have a relationship with. And it’s not an easy choice to make. Once, I considered all the ladies around me, and I …

I don’t think that there’s anything that kills a marriage faster than unspoken regrets.  I mean, if anyone has a regret in their marriage, they should be forthcoming about it with their spouse.  Marriage is all about partnership and teaming up to make things work together for good.  So, when one opens up about one’s …

When I was a child and used to steal what was equivalent to a nickel from my mother’s purse, I had many justifications for it.  I grew up and discovered I was wrong; no matter how justified I thought I was, it was still wrong.  Unfortunately, some of us grow up and still lack the …

No matter how sudden a divorce or separation is, the day it was vocalized or agreed on was never the day it was conceived in the heart of one or both of the partners. It started way before then. Many people who leave their partners do it in their minds long before they summon the …

Sex is one of the things that many couples don’t seem to talk about enough in marriage. And I find it amusing, especially because before they get married, the eagerness to discuss it was always present, and many even indulge in the act. But after marriage, something changes for many couples. Maybe it’s the challenges …

Words are very important. Especially in relationships. I think we spend so much time emphasizing why we shouldn’t speak negative words that we have few opportunities to speak about those words that we should speak. Positive words are really important. Not just because they uplift the other person, but also because deep down within us, …

Whenever intimate or romantic gestures are mentioned, a particular picture comes to mind.  Most people have the mentality that men should be giving intimate gestures while women should be at the receiving end.  That’s a wrong line of thought. Everyone, including men and women, is deserving of and should receive intimate gestures from their loved …