LOVE… the most abused world in the world! Yes, I said it. Often, what we call love is not love; it is just selfishness masquerading or infatuation. In fact, obsession could take on a form of love, but it’s only a smoke screen. It is not love because you both look so adorable smiling and …
Right now, there is a pandemic we should be worried about. It is the worrying trend of some ladies preferring to be side chicks to married men or even attempting to replace their wives instead of dating fellow single men. Just the other day, I came across a podcast that was extolling the merits of …
After a decade of marriage, I found myself at a crossroads, feeling more like an exhausted traveler than a happy wife. In the midst of my cocktail of responsibilities, routines, and the occasional argument here and there over things like who left the cap off the toothpaste, I realized that something fundamental was missing in …
There are so many stereotypes for men, and I wouldn’t lie to you; many men fit right into those stereotypes either by accident or by design. There is the stoic stereotype that finds it difficult to express emotions except anger; anger is one emotion that most men have no difficulty expressing. Some men fit right …
Personally, there are a few things I do not consider as part of the ups and downs that people are meant to endure persistently in a relationship. Dealing with a partner who leads a double life is one of them. This is not a situation that life throws at you or that you both found …
When I got married, I’m ashamed to say I went in with so many fantasies. Don’t blame me; I am a rom-com fanatic. Bear in mind that this is not an attempt to bash romcoms; they are still my favorite genre. But if you are like me, you must learn to separate what’s being shown …
I watched a TikTok video recently in which a woman was interviewed on the street about the impact of her parents’ marriage on her. She mentioned that, yes, her parents’ marriage was toxic, and she had to tell her mum to leave because she noticed she was staying for her and her sister. It got …