Love is really beautiful, and marriage usually seems to be the ultimate goal of love between two people. After all, what greater expression of love is there than committing to spend forever with the one you love? Ideally, this commitment should not change through the good or bad times. This is absolutely the highest expression …

One of the wildest dating experiences I had in my dating phase as a young woman was with a guy I met at the beach. His name was Segun. This guy was a nice guy who seemed perfect, well, at first. We hit off on a good note, having great conversations and hanging out often. …

It’s funny how many married people don’t really talk to each other. At least it’s not about the things that truly matter. People marry thinking that love is the answer to everything in marriage, and they later get shocked when they discover that it is not. The reality is that having open, honest, and meaningful …

Although thankfully, I don’t experience this in my marriage, I have experienced this in a relationship.  And I will be the first person to tell you it is one of the worst places to be – trying to get someone to see and acknowledge you and your efforts to love them.  My ex got so …

I love marriage. A little too much, if I’m being honest. I love how two people come together, become one, and begin to live their lives as each other’s everything. So, you’ll always find me rooting for marriage. I always pray that everyone who desires it gets it and gets the best of it. But …

Marriage is often painted as the ultimate antidote to loneliness. We imagine a lifelong partnership filled with shared laughter, deep conversations, and an unshakable bond. But what happens when reality doesn’t quite match the dream? What happens when, despite having a loving husband, a wife finds herself feeling profoundly alone? It’s a paradox that many …

I had a friend when I was in college who was obsessed with this book, “Why Men Love B*tches.” Although I never read the book, he spoke about it enough that I could get the gist – being a good woman doesn’t keep a man to you.  In fact, they prefer a b*tch.  As I …