Have you heard people, particularly Nigerians, make cryptic comments on social media?  “Marriage no be beans o.” “Marriage no be for small pikin.” “Marriage is not for the faint-hearted!” They say these because, away from the glam and glitz online, the matching pajamas and PDAs, a lot of work goes into building a strong and …

A relationship is not just about the rush of emotions and passionate feelings between two people. It is also about what they do for each other. Over the years, we have all been so focused on what a man has to do for his woman. Different women have different opinions on this, but they still …

If you have ever asked yourself what a man should bring to her man’s life, you are not alone.  After all, we all want to be sure we are adding value to our relationship.  So, if you’ve ever asked this or can relate to wondering how you can add to your man’s life, you are …

Many women desire to be wives and marry, but few are smart wives. And I get it. Some people go into marriage with all sorts of ideologies about it, some cultural, traditional, or even societal. That is why I have written this article to guide you. Smart wives don’t yield to societal and cultural expectations …

My boy is four years old and as young as he is, I imagine myself vetting whoever he brings home to meet me as his partner. Of course, I’m not unreasonable; I know my son will have to love another woman and make a life with her. I wish that for him, too, and I …

When it comes to relationships, it sometimes feels like some people get it while others repeatedly fall into the same trap.  The same thing applies to marriage.  You’d see some women’s marriages, and it’s almost like they are wielding a magic wand because of how happy they are and how well-put-together their homes are.  On …

Emotions! They are part of what makes us humans; however, when they are trifled with, a person could easily lose it. Emotional brokenness is a mental and emotional state of deep-seated trauma after a significantly impacting event or string of events, e.g., heartbreak, loss, rape, disappointment, etc. Women experience emotional brokenness, and this is a …