Let me start by going straight to the point: seeking validation from others is not the best way to live.  Imagine others determining your mood and how you feel about yourself.  If they approve of you, you are happy, and when they don’t, you become sad.  Can you imagine how unstable your mood would be …

Intimacy is usually seen as the ultimate expression of love in marriage. It is an important aspect of any marriage. It is that moment of closeness and vulnerability that is meant to bring couples closer. But what happens when it doesn’t? What happens when a wife feels more alone after being intimate with her husband? …

I’ve heard older women say, ”A woman’s mind is a pit of secrets!” Well, for the purpose of this post, the secrets I’ll be writing about here are not huge, marriage-breaking betrayals or deep, dark double lives like a woman giving another man’s child to her husband and pretending it’s his. Those women are cruel, …

No one walks into marriage thinking, “I can’t wait to get divorced someday.” Absolutely no one.  Divorce sometimes is like a storm you never saw coming. Even though divorce is tough and painful, some women are happier after their divorce than they were in the marriage.  While society might paint divorced women as sad or …

I remember overhearing a couple of girls discussing affairs and how it is impossible for most guys to stay loyal to one lady. They ended their conversation with a rationalization that still gets my blood boiling now, “If it’s just sex, I will accept it so far I am the main partner.” It made me …

The first time I entered a romantic relationship, I was a teenager. I had just met this lady who seemed to be everything I wanted in a woman. I thought I was in love until we started dating, and in just two months, I was already tired of her. I could no longer see those …

Intimacy is a big part of marriage. And while people advise couples to focus on emotional intimacy, physical intimacy is also equally important. Presently, we live in a woke generation and we are trying to broaden a lot of perspectives. So, we also emphasize how physical intimacy is not limited to only sex. However, one …