One time, I noticed I had developed a very dangerous habit: it wasn’t the type that could get me in jail or worse, but it was still a dangerous habit. I had the habit of pretending that all was well, even when it was obvious that it wasn’t. I felt that admitting things were not …

When you think of an affair, you think short, quick, and not sustainable. I can relate. Affairs are usually just flings that lack foundation and a backbone. They don’t last. But is that always the case? The answer is a resounding no. You’d think the fact that one of the participants is married should be …

A mistress is supposed to be a secret lover, a side chick, a temporary fling… So why would a man go and commit a double betrayal by falling in love with his mistress? As if it’s not enough that you are cheating, you go ahead and catch feelings for her.  We need to know why.  …

You might find it hard to believe, but some people are asexual. Yeah, it’s exactly what you’re thinking. Hmmm hmm. They don’t experience sexual attraction or desire, and for them, sex just isn’t a thing. That’s why a woman could be in a sexless marriage and be fine.  But not wanting sex isn’t exclusive to …

You’d think that when a man is in love with you, he should not only know but also let you know. Well, it’s not that simple sometimes. Not every man wears his heart on his sleeve. Some are subtle, guarded, or even downright stubborn about showing their true feelings. This could be due to fear …

I know you might be thinking, ”Does it matter who loves who more in a relationship?” ”Who cares if I love him more than I love myself?” Oh well…. Darling.  You should care. And you’ll see why in this article.  See, falling in love is one of life’s most incredible feelings. Been there. Still there.  …

Trauma is tough. I’ll urge you to read the nine signs you are a traumatized woman if you haven’t.  Trauma is like carrying a heavy backpack full of emotions, memories, and triggers that you didn’t sign up for. Healing is possible, though. It won’t happen overnight and won’t be easy, but you can work through …