Being an introvert in an extroverted world is challenging, especially when it comes to finding a job that suits your personality. I’m an introvert myself, and I know all too well the struggles of having a job where you have to constantly interact with people. It can be, no, it is definitely mentally and emotionally …

I grew up in a neighborhood where one of the ways guys showed awareness of their love interest was by winking. In Nigerian pidgin parlance, it is called “cutting eye.” While winking may seem like a casual and subtle gesture, it can mean many things depending on the gender of the person winking, their relationship …

When a guy wants to spend the holidays with you, what does it really mean? The holiday season is one of the most anticipated periods of the year. For some, it is at the end of the year, while some have theirs in the middle or any time they deem it fit to take a …

As a side chick, it is usually sweet and sour to be the hidden treasure in someone else’s life. However, when that person is married and constantly goes back to his wife, it can leave the side chick feeling a range of emotions. I can tell this categorically because I have been there but not …

When you are into a guy, you want to be in touch with him as much as possible, especially when you are just getting to know each other. You want him to be the first human you talk to and the last person you text before going to bed. So, what happens when you don’t …

“Respect should be the first thing you give.” – Anonymous This anonymous quote struck the right chord with me, and I felt like sharing it with you. It is so different from the reality of things in our world that I am sure the writer must have been writing about some sort of utopian society. …

Have you ever met daughters who blame their mums for everything that goes wrong in their lives? Well, I have, and when they do it, it’s not a good sight to behold. Generally, as an adult, whether male or female, daughter, son, mother, or father, being in the habit of blaming someone for everything that …