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A female friend was telling me about her parents’ marriage. I was shocked when she described some of her mom’s antics in the house. I felt like her mom wasn’t doing well, but I didn’t tell her this because she sounded like she supported everything her mom did. Well, before those conversations, I used to …

The idea of a relationship is for two people to come together, love each other, and offer each other value. That’s why one person can’t do a relationship alone. No matter how good you are, if your partner is not doing their part, the relationship will suffer. Besides, who wants to be in a relationship …

“Relationship is a delicate dance of give and take. Just like everything else; sowing and reaping, asking and receiving…” A friend once used these words to describe relationship to me and they just stuck. Relationships are all about give and take. Couples are expected to put in effort to make their relationships work. However, sometimes …

Most of the time, I see people talking about how difficult it is to find love in this generation, and I groan because we haven’t even started talking about finding love with the right person. For many ladies, finding Mr Right can be tricky on several levels. First, there is the sad fact that most …

Have you heard people, particularly Nigerians, make cryptic comments on social media? “Marriage no be beans o.” “Marriage no be for small pikin.” “Marriage is not for the faint-hearted!” They say these because, away from the glam and glitz online, the matching pajamas and PDAs, a lot of work goes into building a strong and …

A relationship is not just about the rush of emotions and passionate feelings between two people. It is also about what they do for each other. Over the years, we have all been so focused on what a man has to do for his woman. Different women have different opinions on this, but they still …

If you have ever asked yourself what a man should bring to her man’s life, you are not alone. After all, we all want to be sure we are adding value to our relationship. So, if you’ve ever asked this or can relate to wondering how you can add to your man’s life, you are …

Many women desire to be wives and marry, but few are smart wives. And I get it. Some people go into marriage with all sorts of ideologies about it, some cultural, traditional, or even societal. That is why I have written this article to guide you. Smart wives don’t yield to societal and cultural expectations …