Right from time, I have always held tight to the notion that “chasing” wasn’t necessary in relationships, regardless of the gender doing it. This opinion is based on the fact that the word “chasing” suggests someone trying to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with them. I mean, that’s the only reason why …

I have seen so many ladies try to change themselves and become someone they are not for their boyfriends. And while change is the only constant thing in life, there are certain things you are not supposed to change for your boyfriend. After all, love is about acceptance, growth, and mutual respect. It is not …

Hey sis.  Don’t close this page in anger.  This post isn’t to shame you; it’s to wake you up. Because some of us are doing ourselves dirty in the name of love. And the worst part? We often know it’s nonsense, but we convince ourselves that “he’ll change,” “no one is perfect,” or “at least …

If you love your man, you sure want to keep him. And that’s fine. What you love, you naturally want to nurture and hold onto. But sometimes, in the process of trying to keep a man, we start accepting and doing things we shouldn’t. We start normalizing behaviors that are actually harmful in the name …

Words are not just words. They are windows into a person’s mindset. The things a man says while dating might seem like harmless opinions or jokes, but those words often reveal what marriage with him will feel like. Because once the wedding is over and real life begins, those casual statements turn into your daily …

Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre. It is not a rescue mission. Yet, many women walk into marriage hoping that the ring will change him. Spoiler alert: it won’t. If anything, marriage will expose what was already there and magnify it. Take it from a woman who has been married for eight years, seen enough stories, …

Falling in love and saying “Yes, I’ll marry you” is very easy. I still remember my proposal like it was just yesterday. My husband, then my fiancé, outdid himself! It was beautiful and I was so happy. You couldn’t get me mad in that season of my life, I was just too excited. The aesthetics, …