10 Things Men Do In Bed That Women Hate

For some reason, some men think that they are great in bed; it is probably a thing of ego for them to assume that they have got it all figured out during sex.

But surely, women will agree that some of the things men assume women enjoy or things they do unconsciously are actually things women hate.

If you are a man who wants to make sure his woman is comfortable in the bedroom, read on to see if there is something you need to adjust.

10 Things Men Do In Bed That Women Hate

1. Skipping Or Rushing Foreplay

Honestly, where are the men who do this rushing to?

There are two reasons why men skip foreplay: either they are selfish or they don’t know better.

When a man is selfish, he is only concerned about his own pleasure. He just wants to thrust, reach orgasm, and get it over with.

For those who don’t know better, they believe a little touch here and there is enough to get a woman there.

But it is actually not that easy to get a woman aroused, at least, it’s not as easy as that of men.

You have to take your time with foreplay.

In fact, many women don’t reach orgasm easily, and the foreplay is either what will get them there, or that’s the highest pleasure they will get during physical intimacy.

So please, men, do better.

2. Insisting On Orgasm

Like I mentioned earlier, women don’t orgasm easily.

In fact, research agrees that many women have never climaxed, especially through penetration.

So, insisting on orgasm or saying things like, “Cum for me, baby” is a huge turn-off.

Yeah, it might sound sexy to you, or maybe it’s about your ego, but imagine her frustration when she is trying to climax, not reaching it, and here you are pressuring her to.

On the other hand, if a woman tells you how to make her climax, listen to her.

Don’t insist on doing it your own way and expecting her to reach orgasm when you want.

3. Unhygienic

For some reason, many men think personal hygiene is feminine.

They don’t say it in so many words, but they act like they believe it.

Please, men, shaving the armpit and down below (at least trimming it) is not a “woman” thing. It is a “human” thing.

No woman wants to give you head and be battling with hair and getting hair in her mouth.

Brush your teeth and take a shower before bed. Don’t expect her to get turned on when you are packing all day’s sweat; it’s just not attractive.

**4. Gagging During Oral S*x**

Men, giving you a BJ is not that easy when you are trying to push the head of your woman down to take you in and expect her not to gag.

We all gag even from brushing our teeth and sticking the brush far down our throats.

So, imagine expecting women not to gag when you are insisting on thrusting deep down her throat.

5. Refusing to use protection

I genuinely don’t understand the audacity some men have when it comes to this.

Like, how do you expect a woman to relax and enjoy herself when she’s busy calculating risk factors in her head?

“Oh, I’m clean.”

“She’s on the pill.”

“I pull out on time.”

“It doesn’t feel the same.”

“I trust you.”

Please. Stop.

Just stop!

This isn’t about trust.

It’s about respect, responsibility, and reality.

Women bear the brunt of unprotected sex.

We’re the ones who face higher risks of sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

We’re the ones who deal with pregnancy scares or actual pregnancies.

And guess who society will still blame?

Yep, the woman.

So when a woman asks you to use a condom, she’s not trying to insult your hygiene.

She’s not trying to kill the mood.

She’s not saying she doesn’t trust you.

She’s saying: I value my body, my peace of mind, and my future.

The least you can do is honor that.

And let’s not even start on the men who try to sneak it in without protection after the woman has clearly said no.

That’s not just disrespectful; that’s a violation.

Full stop.

If you don’t like using protection, that’s your choice.

But don’t expect access to someone else’s body unless you’re both on the same page.

Don’t guilt or pressure her.

Don’t whine about how it doesn’t feel the same.

You know what doesn’t feel good?

Lying awake at night worried you might have caught something.

Taking a pregnancy test with your heart in your mouth.

Dealing with infections.

Explaining to your doctor how you trusted someone.

So yes, use protection.

6. Insisting on lasting for hours

Some men act like sex is a marathon and they’re trying to win a medal.

Meanwhile, their partner is lying there thinking, “Is this ever going to end?”

Longer doesn’t always mean better.

While not lasting at all is not a good idea, there is also something to be said for it being too much.

If you can get her to climax, she is okay with you not going on and on.

Going for hours feels more like punishment than passion.

Focus on pleasure, not performance.

7. Staying Silent

Imagine having sex with someone who makes no sound.

You don’t have to make too much noise because that’s also a huge turn-off, but let her know she is doing it with a breathing human.

Let her hear you breathe.

Moan.

Whisper.

Talk.

Let her know she’s doing something right.

A little verbal appreciation goes a long way in making her feel sexy and confident.

Because she wants to know you are enjoying it as much as she is.

8. Thrusting too deep

Some women like it when men thrust deep, and most of them voice it out.

However, for many women, it is actually painful when you insist on hitting their cervix.

And you really need to read the room during s*x.

Is she moaning in pain or pleasure? T

hat could tell you whether she likes it or not.

But to be safe, it might be better not to and do it only when she explicitly requests you to.

9. Rough Touching

Some men don’t know the difference between a caress and manhandling.

Your hands are not power tools.

She’s not drywall.

Some men are rough without even realizing it….biting too hard, sucking too long, fingering too aggressively.

When you’re rough without her being aroused, it feels like punishment.

Not passion.

Don’t confuse aggression with excitement.

Be gentle.

Explore.

Caress.

Make her feel safe, not sore..

You are supposed to be making love, not war.

Stick to gentle caresses, sucking and licking.

10. Trying new things without permission

We all know there are certain things you can try with your partner for the first time without announcing, and there are just certain things you need to ask for permission.

Just because you saw it online, your ex liked it, or your friend said his girl loves it, doesn’t mean she will.

Whether it’s trying a new position, introducing toys, or going near her back door, you need to talk about it first.

Don’t surprise her mid-action.

That’s not sexy; it’s disrespectful.

You don’t have to schedule a formal meeting.

A playful conversation before intimacy works wonders. “Would you be open to trying…” goes a lot further than just springing it on her.

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