”How to make my husband attracted to me while pregnant
You’re pregnant. You’re huge. You feel unsexy. Your husband seems to have lost interest.
What’s a girl to do?
Pregnancy is an exciting time in a woman’s life, but it can also be a stressful one.
Trust me; I’ve been there twice.
Not only do you have to deal with the physical and emotional changes your body goes through, but pregnancy can also impact your relationship with your partner.
If you’re feeling less attracted to your husband while pregnant, there are steps you can take to help get that spark back into your marriage before your baby arrives.
I’ll be sharing some tips on making your husband attracted to you again, even when you’re feeling your least attractive.
How To Make My Husband Attracted To Me While Pregnant
1. Don’t try to lose weight
I know, I know.
This is easier said than done.
But trust me, the more you obsess about your weight gain, the less attractive you’ll feel.
Instead of fixating on losing weight, focus on being healthy.
You are pregnant.
A life is growing inside of you.
That is amazing and beautiful, no matter what your size is.
So, pregnancy is not the time to launch your weight loss journey.
After the baby is born, then you can focus on shedding the pregnancy pounds if you want to.
But for now, eat nutritious foods and get the exercise appropriate for your stage of pregnancy, like walking.
Walking is a great form of exercise for pregnant women because it doesn’t put any stress on your joints or bones, which can become more fragile when carrying extra weight.
Plus, walking gets the heart pumping and keeps blood circulating through your body — which is good for both mom and baby
As long as you’re taking care of yourself, your husband will still find you attractive – even if you’ve gained a few pounds.
2. Dress to flatter your new body
Pregnancy can make us feel bloated and unattractive in general.
If you’re feeling particularly self-conscious about how your body looks, try wearing clothes that show off your best features.
Your husband loves seeing you look cute, even in pregnancy.
So instead of wearing your same old mom jeans all day long (even if they are super comfy), try putting on something that makes you feel sexy—and then show off those curves.
Sexy lingerie is one great option for this, but you can wear t-shirts with jeans or dresses that show off your curves.
3. Smell good
You might notice that pregnancy brings out all sorts of strange smells from your body — sweatier armpits, farts that smell like rotting eggs, and so on.
But there’s nothing wrong with trying to improve the way you smell.
Keep up with regular showers and if you want to go all out, buy some perfume or cologne and use it generously during pregnancy.
Your husband will love seeing you embrace your body, and he’ll find you even more attractive.
4. Be confident
This is probably the most important tip of all.
Be confident, no matter how you look, your weight, and your body shape.
If you’re not confident, your husband will pick up on that.
So, even if you’re self-conscious about your new body, fake it until you make it.
Stand tall, make eye contact, and smile.
Your husband will be drawn to your confidence.
5. Be positive
Pregnancy can be a tough time for many women.
You might be feeling hormonal, uncomfortable, and just plain fed up.
But try to stay positive through it all.
The more positive you are, the more attractive you’ll be to your husband.
He doesn’t want to come home to a negative nancy; he wants to come home to a happy, positive wife.
Yes, there will be tough days, but not every day will be tough.
So, give positive vibes as much as you can.
6. Take advantage of your new body
Take advantage of the fact that pregnancy has made your boobs bigger.
Use them to your advantage.
Wear low-cut tops and push-up bras, and let your cleavage do the talking for you.
7. Be spontaneous
Pregnancy can make you feel like you’re on a never-ending rollercoaster ride of emotions.
One minute you’re happy, the next, you’re crying, and the next, you’re angry.
It can be tough for your husband to keep up.
But one way to ensure he’s still attracted to you is to be spontaneous.
Do things on the spur of the moment.
Go on a spontaneous date, have an impromptu sex, or just do something out of the ordinary.
Your husband will love your spontaneity, and it’ll keep him on his toes; which is sure to keep him attracted to you.
You know what’s more irresistible than a spontaneous woman?
A spontaneous pregnant woman!
8. Make time for yourself
This one is kind of a no-brainer but you’d be surprised how many women forget to take care of themselves while they’re pregnant.
Pregnancy can be a tough time, and it’s important to make time for yourself.
By taking care of yourself mentally and physically, you’ll feel more confident in all areas of life—including your marriage.
You want to be a good mom and wife, but you also want to make sure you’re taking care of yourself.
Take some time each day to do something you enjoy, whether it’s reading, watching a movie, taking a bath, or going for a walk.
9. Be affectionate
You might feel like you’re not getting enough attention from your husband while pregnant
But he’s probably just as scared and overwhelmed as you are.
Be sure to show him affection, both through words and actions.
Tell him you love him, give him hugs and kisses, and touch him often.
Affection will help to keep the spark alive in your relationship.
10. Be naughty
One thing a lot of women don’t realize is that men love it when their wives get naughty.
If your man has lost interest in you because you are pregnant, then make sure he sees you as his sexual partner again.
Send your husband some sexy text messages or leave him a flirty note in his lunch box.
The more naughty you get with him, the better.
Trust me; he’ll be thinking about you all day long.
11. You’re not going to be pregnant forever
I know it feels like you will be, but believe me, at some point, the weight will drop off, you’ll feel better, and all of your clothes will fit again.
It might take a while, but it’ll happen.
And when it does, there’ll be nothing like the feeling of being able to slip on a dress that fits snugly around your waist—and then remembering that you used to be able to wear dresses like that before you got pregnant.
I don’t mean this as a way to guilt trip you into losing weight after having a baby.
I just want you to remember when you’re feeling unattractive and gross that pregnancy is only temporary, and it’ll end soon enough.
And then you can go back to your normal routine of looking hot, which will make him want you even more.
12. Talk to your husband about how you feel
Finally, don’t forget to talk to your husband about how you’re feeling.
Pregnancy can be a difficult time for both of you, and it’s important to communicate with each other about what’s going on.
If you’re feeling down, unattractive, or unsupported, tell him.
He’s probably feeling just as lost and confused as you are.
Opening up the lines of communication will help you both feel closer to each other and make it through this time in your lives together.
It’s not easy being a pregnant woman.
Your body is literally changing in every way possible, and if you’re like me, you’re just trying to keep up with the flow of new information about what’s going on inside your body.
Just follow these tips and before you know it, he’ll be drooling over you again.
So go ahead and enjoy those extra curves—they’ll be gone before you know it!