No matter how much you love your child’s father, it can be hard to get over the fact that he is no longer in love with you.
But if you want to move on with your life, it’s time to start looking for signs your baby daddy is over you.
Yes, you’re the mother of his child and he has no problem with that, but the romance is gone.
Here are signs your baby daddy is over you:
9 Signs Your Baby Daddy is Over You
1. He’s dating other women
If he has a new girl on his arm, it’s clear that he has moved on from you and is ready to start dating again.
While many men are able to keep things platonic with their exes, it’s best to assume that he is over you if he is dating someone else.
And while some men might date other women to make their baby mamas jealous, a man who is in a serious relationship with another woman or serially dating other women doesn’t appear to care about win over his baby mama.
If he’s serious about wanting you back, he’d make room for you to prove there’s space for you.
But if he’s filling the space with other women, he’s probably over you.
2. He stops calling or texting and maybe only calls when he wants something from you
Perhaps when you first broke up with your baby daddy, he was calling and texting all the time.
He didn’t seem to care that you had broken up with him.
He was doing everything in his power to win you back.
But now it seems like he has given up on you completely.
He doesn’t call or text anymore, and even if he does, it is because of his kids or any other thing that unrelated to you or your relationship with him.
3. You are not invited to any family functions or holidays, but his new girlfriend is always there with him
If you used to be at his family functions before and now, he has stopped inviting you there, and maybe goes with his new girlfriend, your baby daddy is over you.
His family might even have accepted his new girlfriend.
Maybe they were the ones encouraging both of you to get back together because of the kids, but now, they are cool with his new girlfriend.
Kiss your baby daddy good bye because the dude is over you.
4. He doesn’t look at you anymore with love
You can always tell how someone feels about you through their eyes—how they look at you.
If your baby daddy still wants to have something romantic with you, he’ll look at you longingly.
He’ll want to see if there’s any longing in your eyes for him too.
But now, you’re starting to notice a change in the way he looks at you.
Instead of holding your gaze for just a second too long like the way he used to, it seems like he can’t even be in the same room with you anymore without looking away immediately after catching your eye accidentally.
5. He doesn’t seem interested in your life
When you love someone but you’re not together, what do you do?
You’ll be interested in their life.
You’ll be curious to know what’s going on with them.
You’ll care about their job or business and if they’re happy at it.
You’ll care about their health and ask if they are doing fine.
You want to know all these things not just for the sake of knowing, but so you can know if there’s anything you can do to make them feel better.
Because you deeply care about them and their happiness.
If your baby daddy is over you, he won’t care about your life anymore because he’s not interested in being a part of it.
The part that concerns him is the part that bonds you two together—your child.
If he’s only interested in his child and not in your personal life, he might just be over you already.
6. He avoids talking about your relationship
It’s understandable if your child’s father avoids talking about his feelings regarding your relationship — especially if they are negative ones.
But if he consistently avoids talking about any aspect of your relationship, then it’s safe to say that he is over you and wants to leave your relationship in the past.
If a guy is over you, he’s not going to want to talk about the stuff that reminds him of his feelings for you—like your relationship or how he feels about it.
A guy who wants to be in a relationship with you will want to talk about things, so both you know where you stand.
The one who doesn’t care is over you.
7. He seems distant and cold towards you
You can tell he is over you from how cold and distant he acts towards you.
Whenever he’s with you, he acts like a stranger or treats you like one.
There is no emotion in his words or actions.
He even acts like he can’t wait to get away from you.
This is the not the attitude of a man who is still in love with you.
8. He tells you to move on
If your baby daddy tells you to put yourself out there again or join the dating market, he’s surely over you.
A man who loves you and wants you back in his life will not encourage you to date others.
If he’s telling you to move on, it’s very likely he has moved on too and is dating others.
9. He tells you in clear terms
If your baby daddy is the assertive type, he might tell you without mincing words that you guys are over, and that the only thing linking you together is your child.
He might even set boundaries with you and tell you when to call him and what things to call him for.
If he’s in a new relationship or married, he doesn’t want you to come between him and his partner, so he’ll make it clear that you guys are over.
So, you shouldn’t get any funny ideas in your head.
Of course, this is the surest of the signs your baby daddy is over you.
It’s tough to experience these signs if you are still in love with him and hoping that you guys can be one big happy family.
But you can’t force someone to love you; so you have to accept that it’s over and move on with your life.
Keep pursuing your goals and make your happiness a priority.
Love will find you.