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9 Spicy Wedding Night Tips For Newlyweds

9 Spicy Wedding Night Tips For Newlyweds

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These Smashing Honeymoon Tips Will Surely Spice up Your Wedding Night

If you’re about to tie the knot, you probably have a lot to think about. And one of those things is your wedding night!

Even if you’re not jumping into bed together for the first time, you’re still doing so as a married couple, and you want to make it memorable.

Fortunately, there are plenty of ways to do just that, and we’ve rounded up some hot honeymoon tips that will add some spice to your first night as a married couple.


Start Your Private Party Early

Your wedding day may be extremely busy, but don’t forget that it is all about you. You can set the tone for what’s to come tonight by flirting subtly with each other throughout the day.

Whether it’s a steamy kiss while you’re taking your photographs, a naughty whisper of how excited you are about the wedding night during your first dance or a suggestive slide of the hand under the table, building anticipation adds to the heat.

Set The Scene

Spicy Wedding Night Tips For Newlyweds

Putting extra effort into the atmosphere of your honeymoon space is one of the best ways to make it special. Go all out to create an exquisite set-up that makes you and your partner feel like you’ve stepped into a whole new world of romance and sensuality. 

If you’re staying in a hotel, consider calling them ahead of time and asking them to arrange something special for you. Or, if you’re staying in self-catering accommodation, take some time to add a few special touches to the bedroom beforehand.

Candles, flowers, and fairy lights all enhance the mood, but don’t be afraid to experiment with other symbols of love and sensuality that reflect your unique relationship. 

It’s also a great idea to create a sexy soundtrack of your favorite songs. This will instantly create a romantic mood and make it a night to remember.


Indulge Your Senses

Taste, touch, smell… All three of these senses can enhance your wedding night and make it one to remember. You can start your night with a sublime shared rose-petal-filled bubble bath to relax and unwind after your big day and sip on a glass of bubbly while soaking in the tub.

To add an aphrodisiac touch, splash out on some oysters or opt for something a little more personal, like edible chocolate body paint.

Smell is an incredibly powerful sense, as it stimulates emotions, memories, and moods. You can give each other sensual massages using an essential oil with aphrodisiac properties or simply spritz some of the oil around the room or onto your sheets. Ylang-ylang, sandalwood, lavender, and jasmine all stimulate desire and smell divine. 


Splurge On Sexy Lingerie

Spicy Wedding Night Tips For Newlyweds

A little bit of lingerie can encourage sexual confidence and empower each of you to explore different sides of yourselves. Whether that means investing in classic bridal lingerie, complete with a corset and garter or a full-on role-playing outfit to live out your wildest fantasies, what you wear under your clothing or after you’ve ditched your wedding attire can certainly add spice to your honeymoon. 

Sexy outfits are more than just physically alluring; they also give you something tactile to undress as you embark on your journey of intimacy as a newly married couple. 

You can even hint to your new spouse that you’re going to be wearing something special while still at your wedding. This is sure to get them fired up!


Prioritize Foreplay 

Foreplay is a wonderful way to build up sexual tension and get you feeling excited about your special night. Hold back the desire to get straight into things and allow yourselves to soak up all the excitement from the day and channel it into ultra-romantic expressions of love for each other. 

You’ve got all the time in the world—and focusing more on extended foreplay often means that pleasure reaches new heights when it is finally time. Foreplay is also a beautiful way to intensify your connection to your partner and enjoy a longer-lasting honeymoon period that neither of you will ever forget. 


Play Naughty Games

If you’re a playful couple or enjoy learning more about each other all the time, you can add some heat to your wedding night with games. These can be as tame or as kinky as you prefer,  and there really are so many fantastic options available. You can pick something simple, or you can surprise your new spouse by really turning up the heat and revealing a sexy side they didn’t know you had—and will be thrilled to discover.

From Truth or Dare to Tantric Sex Cards or the viral board game sensation Behind Closed Doors, there’s a nice but naughty game to suit every couple. The best part about these games is that no one really loses!


Have Fun With It 

Honeymoons are celebratory affairs, so don’t be afraid to put your own twist on things by having a little bit of cheeky fun. Try out toys you’ve never tried before, eat foods you’ve never tried, and maintain a generally open-minded attitude to your new life as a married couple. 

This experience will encourage a new sense of intimacy and connection with your partner, and it will set the tone for a life filled with mutual exploration and growth. So, allow it to unfold however you see fit on your honeymoon fairytale. 


Don’t Put Too Much Pressure On Yourselves 

Spicy Wedding Night Tips For Newlyweds

There is a lot of hype and expectation around the first night of marriage. People can have the idea that it needs to be a wild, out-of-this-world sexual experience that tops all others, but this is not always realistic or necessary. 

There’s no need to put pressure on yourselves to perform like crazy. In fact, that kind of pressure can do more harm than good for natural arousal levels. 

Instead, take a relaxed and trusting approach to this special night and allow things to heat up in a more natural way. After all, you got married because you love each other,  and no matter what you plan or how you’re dressed, the experience will be both magical and rewarding. 


Get Off To A Sizzling Start

The first night after your wedding represents the beginning of your life as a married couple. It should be as memorable as it is steamy. 

Finding ways to spice up your night and make your honeymoon extra special will make it an unforgettable experience that you cherish for the rest of your lives. 

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