How long have you been married?
Bola : 17 years.
Abdulkadir : 17 years.
How did you meet?
Bola : Through a fellow corp member.
Abdulkadir : We met through someone.
What attracted you to him/her?
Bola : His honesty.
Abdulkadir : Her simplicity and truthfulness.
What do you appreciate about him/her?
Bola : He’s very kind, supportive and empathetic.
Abdulkadir : She’s caring and intelligent.
What do you wish he/she improves on?
Bola : His temper.
Abdulkadir : She trusts people easily.
How does he/she complement you?
Bola : Playing certain motherly roles some exigencies of my profession won’t allow me from time to time.
Abdulkadir : She’s an extrovert.
Who apologizes the most?
Bola : He does.
Abdulkadir : Me.
Bola : We discuss.
Abdulkadir : We talk it out.
What do you think are the ingredients of a happy marriage?
Bola : Love, trust, understanding, communication.
Abdulkadir : Love, trust, and understanding.
What are the most important lessons you have learnt in marriage so far?
Bola : Patience
Abdulkadir : To be extremely patient.
If there was a next life, would you love to be married to him/her?
Bola : I definitely WILL!!! Lol.
Abdulkadir : Sure.
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I observed some similarities between this interview and the previous one. Indicate in the comment section if you did too. Lol.
9 Comments
CHRISTIANA CHIDIEBERE
Who apologises most? Him. Lol
Olumoroti
The men are always the one apologizing first!…..why so Ma? is it that ladies don't have big heart to forgive easily or they get pained the most ?
Olumoroti
The men are always the one apologizing first!…..why so Ma? is it that ladies don't have big heart to forgive easily or they get pained the most ?
Anonymous
Wow! I love this
Anonymous
well i am a lady ..and i find myself apologizing to my husband all the time regardless of whose fault it is..i am beginning to resent it ….
Anonymous
Same here everytime whether he is wrong or right , he will keep malice till I apologise
olubunmi mabel
Maybe it's the men who offend most. 😂😂😁
olubunmi mabel
Hmmmm. You need to talk to him about it. Saying sorry doesn't remove anything from his ego.
olubunmi mabel
That's very unfair. You should talk to him about this.