We need to have a serious conversation about some things that we, as women, need to stop feeling guilty about and start normalizing in our lives. I’m tired of us acting like we need permission to live our own lives the way we want to. This is an empowering post, and I needed it too. …
Personal Development
When you hear the word “classy”, what comes to your mind? A woman in a sleek black dress? Someone who speaks softly and crosses her legs at the ankle? Or someone who smells like money and wears sunglasses at the airport? Well, I won’t lie; those things can look classy on the outside. But real …
Not a curse, but some people will work from their 20s to their 60s, clocking in every day, never missing a paycheck… and still retire broke. Not because they were lazy or didn’t work hard. But because working hard alone doesn’t guarantee wealth. It never has. Retiring broke isn’t just about how much you earn; …
There is nothing more demeaning and disrespectful than being in a space where everyone is taken seriously except you. You get shushed or ignored when you try to contribute to the conversation, and your ideas are dismissed without a second thought. Sometimes, you’d prefer even to be invisible than to have the constant reminder of …
There was a time in my life when I didn’t feel attractive at all. I questioned whether I had that presence, the kind that makes people take notice. I would constantly compare myself to others, and it seemed like no matter what I did or how much effort I put into my appearance, I just …
I grew up surrounded by women of different classes and ethnicities, and I can tell you that there is a difference between a pretty woman and a truly attractive woman. Most people make the mistake of associating beauty with physical appearance, but true attractiveness goes beyond being just pretty. My ex used to say a …
When you hear people say practice self-love or love yourself, you’d think it’s a natural phenomenon that everyone naturally does. It has become more of a trendy phrase than what it originally should mean. There are so many things that loving yourself is not, and that includes waiting till you burn out before showing yourself …