I’m sure you didn’t think you’d ever google “the worst thing a husband can say to his wife” on your wedding day.
But reality hits you in marriage.
Marriage is beautiful, no doubt, but it’s not all a bed of roses.
There are bound to be conflicts in marriage—it’s part of the journey.
However, conflicts in marriage don’t mean your marriage is in trouble.
It’s what you do during and after conflicts that determines the condition of your marriage.
While it’s natural to say stuff to each other during conflicts, as a husband, there are some worst things you should never say to your wife.
You are not perfect as a wife, but there are some worst things you should never hear your husband say to you.
What is the worst thing a husband can say to his wife?
Below is a list of 280 worst things a man can say to his wife.
The Worst Thing a Husband Can Say To His Wife
1. I regret ever marrying you
2. I don’t love you anymore
3. You’re my greatest life mistake
4. I curse the day I set my eyes on you
5. I hate you
6. I don’t find you beautiful
7. You’re so ugly
8. I wish we didn’t get married
9. You’re not my priority
10. You’re worthless
11. I never loved you
12. You don’t mean anything to me
13. You are a lowlife
14. I don’t find you attractive anymore
15. You irritate me
16. I can’t stand you
17. Have you looked at yourself in the mirror lately?
18. You disgust me
19. I don’t know what I was thinking about getting married to you
20. Don’t you think?
21. You’re a nobody
22. You can’t amount to anything in life
23. You’re daft
24. Who do you think you are?
25. You’re not that smart
26. You’re nothing but trash
27. I hate seeing you
28. You’re my life’s worst nightmare
29. You don’t make me happy
30. Our marriage is a sham
31. I don’t care about you
32. I’m not sure about my feelings for you
33. I’m happier when I’m away from you
34. You are stupid
35. I made you
36. You are nothing without me
37. You don’t have any value
38. Your life is empty
39. You can’t achieve your dreams
40. Dream on
41. I don’t trust you
42. I wish you’d just die so I could be free
43. I’ll be happier without you
44. Unfortunate b*tch
45. That’s your problem, not mine
46. You are problematic
47. You are the problem, not me
48. I don’t care about your feelings
49. I don’t care what think
50. You don’t matter to me
51. Nothing about you is to be desired
52. You deserve the worst
53. You are the worst thing that has ever happened to me
54. I’m in love with someone else
55. I no longer have feelings for you
56. You are a cheat (when you’re not)
57. Crazy b*tch
58. I don’t want to be seen with you
59. You dim my light
60. I shine brighter without you
61. A good day is one which I don’t see you
62. No one would ever want you
63. I did you a favor by marrying you
64. Count yourself lucky to have me
64. I will never apologize to you
65. You’re as big as a whale
66. Are you sure you want to eat that food, considering your size?
67. You’re shapeless
68. An elephant would wear that dress better
69. Don’t you ever think?
70. Your food is nonsense
71. You are not my favorite person in the world right now
72. I don’t think I can do this anymore
73. This is no longer working
74. You are a liar (when you’re being honest)
75. You think you’re the best person to advise me?
76. Your opinion doesn’t count
77. You know nothing
78. You are unreasonable
79. I don’t believe a word of your mouth (when you’re totally honest)
80. You’re not talented
81. You’ve got nothing but me
82. No good can ever come from your life
83. You’re useless
84. You’re a piece of trash
85. I don’t take you seriously
86. Don’t expect anyone to take you seriously
87. No one will believe you
88. It’s all in your head
89. I don’t like coming home to you
90. I’m tired of you
91. You’re so boring
92. I wish you were prettier
93. I wish you were taller
94. Your words mean nothing to me
95. You don’t mean anything to me
96. You’re not good in bed
97. Nothing good can come out of this marriage
98. You can’t make headway
99. I’m done with you
100. I loved my life before I met you
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101. I wish you’d just disappear
102. I wish you’d just leave
103. Do me a favor and leave my life
104. Get out of my sight
105. Your family is useless
106. You bring nothing to the table
107. You add no value to me
108. No one cares about you
109. You lack home training
110. You were not properly raised
111. You’re just like your mother (negatively)
112. I can’t count on you
113. You’re a terrible wife
114. You’re a failure
115. This marriage feels like a bondage
116. You’re not important to me
117. I never asked for your opinion
118. Can’t you ever get anything right in your life?
119. Being with you is a waste of time
120. I wish I could get back the years I’ve spent with you
121. What you lack in beauty, you make up for in sense
122. What you lack in sense, you make up for in beauty
123. At least you are pretty, even if you’re not smart
124. You don’t deserve me
125. You’re a bad mom
126. I don’t want my children to look like you
127. You’re not worthy to be the mother of my children
128. You bring me bad luck
129. How come you’re surrounded by smart people when you are not?
130. It’s a surprise your friends are smart
131. You look better in pictures
132. Find a way to shed those pounds. You’re an eyesore
133. Your foolishness is inherited
134. You’re gullible
135. What do you know? You’ve never worked a day in your life
136. You’re sick in the head
137. Why is everywhere untidy? What have you been doing at home? (For stay-at-home moms who work round the clock at home)
138. The kids are more important to me than you
139. Don’t talk when I’m talking
140. You are to be seen and not heard
141. You don’t/no longer turn me on
142. I don’t find you sexually attractive
143. You’re incompetent
144. You are a whore
145. You barren woman
146. I should have listened to my family (negatively)
147. My family warned me about marrying you
148. My family is more important than you
149. Being with you is hard
150. You can’t find a better person than me
151. You’re cursed
152. When I need your advice, I’ll ask for it
153. You’re an animal
154. No one can live with you
155. My family don’t even like you
156. If I had to choose between you and my family, I’d choose my family
157. You’re not worth it
158. You’re a gold digger
159. You’re a liability to me
160. You’re not my taste/spec
161. I married you out of pity
162. I married you because you were pregnant
163. I was pressured to marry you
164. I curse the day I met you
165. Why are you behaving like a cursed woman?
166. If you were slimmer, perhaps you’d be better in bed
167. You lack good manners
168. You’re out of your mind
169. You should have been one of my exes
170. Whatever makes you sleep at night
171. You’re a curse to my life
172. You’re a wicked soul (when you’re not)
173. You’re not a good person
174. I don’t care what you think
175. You have failed as a wife
176. Even your kids hate you
177. Your kids deserve a better mom
178. I deserve someone better
179. You nag too much
180. I want a divorce
181. You’re too frigid
182. Are you the first woman to be pregnant?
183. Are you the first woman to go through childbirth?
184. Can’t you keep quiet for a minute?
185. You’re not my mom. Don’t try to mother me
186. I make the plans and lead. Your job is to listen and follow
187. You don’t interest me/you’re not interesting/I don’t find you interesting
188. You can’t understand. After all, you don’t work
189. I don’t blame you. You don’t pay the bills
190. Your life is such a mess
191. You’re pathetic
192. You’re selfish. You only think of yourself
193. It’s none of your business
194. Everything is your fault
195. Are you deaf? Don’t you ever listen?
196. I’m the head of this family, and you have no say
197. You are so immature/you always act immature
198. I don’t trust your judgment
199. You’re not a good judge of character
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200. You have a bad character/you are full of flaws
201. You’ve lost your charm
202. The worst of me is better than the best of you
203. You must think so highly of yourself
204. I can never forgive you
205. I don’t need your forgiveness
206. My worst day alone is better than my best day with you
207. You wretched thing
208. Your family is wretched/you’re from a wretched family
209. I don’t give a damn about what you or your family think
210. I can do anything I want with you
211. You’re powerless/defenseless
212. Everything is a problem with you
213. You’re never happy/why are you never happy
214. I can’t make you happy
215. No one can make you happy
216. Your life is so rotten
217. You filthy thing
218. You can’t stop me
219. You’re a sad soul
220. You’re the worst wife of the century/decade
221. You’re a bad woman
222. You’re a terrible kisser
223. You’re a pathetic liar
224. You’re a loser
225. Nothing about you is amazing
226. Everything you touch spoils
227. You’re a killjoy
228. You have a bad omen
229. You carry a bad spirit
230. That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard
231. I didn’t marry you because I loved you
232. You’re a user
233. You’re full of negative vibes
234. You always ruin everything/why do you always ruin everything?
235. You’re such a jerk!
236. You’re an a**hole
237. You’re not special/unique/nothing about you is special
238. It’s not that hard (when you achieve something)
239. I hate waking up to you
240. You’re not good at anything
241. You’re always up to no good
242. You deserve whatever pain you’re going through
243. It’s not a big deal (what you consider a big deal)
244. You’re not relevant
245. You’re insignificant
246. Nobody wants you
247. Don’t be a crybaby!
248. Be sensible for once!
249. Your thinking process amuses me
250. You always let me down
251. You never fail to disappoint me
252. I don’t want you in my life
253. You’ll always live in my shadow
254. Do I have to teach you everything?
252. I can’t tolerate you. No one can.
253. You’re insufferable
254. Your brain has gone on leave/is your brain on leave?
255. Even your best is nothing
256. You’re never considerate
257. You’re the worst human on earth
258. It’s sad to think your parents rejoiced when you were born
259. You’re a mistake/your birth is a mistake
260. You shouldn’t have been born
261. I can’t love you
262. I don’t need you
263. Your tears do not move me
264. Your tears mean nothing to me
265. I’ll never support your dreams
266. You will fail; you always do
267. Don’t believe it when people say you’re beautiful
268. Your happy days are over
269. I will frustrate your life
270. You will curse the day you met me
271. I’ll make you regret ever getting married to me
272. Nothing you say makes sense
273. You’ve never been smart; you’re not about to start
274. You’re horrible/you’re a horrible person
275. When I don’t wake up next to you, it happens to be a good day
276. You’re such a bitter woman
277. You have no future
278. Your future is bleak without me in it
279. My mom did it better
280. You have to respect my family even if they disrespect you. I can’t defend you
Words are very powerful.
Words can build up or break down.
Hurtful words from a husband can break a wife’s spirit.
Every couple should remember that words are like eggs; once broken, can never be retrieved.
lana
Tuesday 14th of June 2022
LOL - thats how i feel about my husband of 34 years ... but would never tell him. Daily unhappy and i hope God will give me a another chance with someone lovable!
Mabel's Blog
Tuesday 14th of June 2022
Amen to your prayer, Lana
Olga Serafin
Monday 15th of November 2021
what can I do? my family is dead I have no one. we use to be us and I am destroyed after 33 years of marriage at age 54. he has said most of these things to me I feel like nothing I use to live for us. this year we went on a get a way and i felt so alone help
lana
Tuesday 14th of June 2022
He is NOT worthy of you Olga! All of the wonderful things about you have been pushed aside or discarded. You are Beautiful, talented, and an awesome friend to those close to you.
YOU Olga, have only one life to live - and this is it! May i suggest you join groups with other ladies, gym or crafts, or whatever you'd enjoy.
Find a life apart from him and when you are, confident, and/or can aford it - dump him!
God did not mean for His daughters to be rugs and walked over. He meant for you to Shine in all your beauty! Go for it!
Mabel's Blog
Tuesday 16th of November 2021
I'm so sorry about your experience. Have you tried talking to him? Have you considered counseling and therapy? You definitely could use some help here.
hephzee
Tuesday 18th of May 2021
Hmm... This can indeed hurt. Now we need one for wives. Let us learn.
Mabel's Blog
Tuesday 18th of May 2021
lol. Yes, coming right up!