It can be tough to tell whether a woman is interested in you or not.
Sometimes, as women, we tend to give men mixed signals, which can be confusing.
However, there are some definite signs a woman is not attracted to you.
If you notice any of the following signs, move on, brother!
13 Signs a Woman Is Not Attracted to You
1. She Avoids Physical Contact
If a woman is not interested in you, she will instinctively avoid physical contact with you.
She will not want to stand close to you, she will not touch you, and she will not flirt with you.
If a woman is interested in you, she will find ways to touch you.
For example, she might squeeze your arm while she’s talking to you or lean in close when she’s speaking.
Women are kind of an open book when they are attracted to a guy.
So, if she’s keeping her distance physically, she probably doesn’t find you attractive.
2. She’s Not Interested In Your Life
When a woman is attracted to a guy, she will usually be interested in learning more about him through asking questions about his life, family, job, and interests.
This because attraction drives curiosity.
She wants to know more about the guy that is giving her butterflies in the belly.
However, when a woman isn’t attracted to someone, she will have no interest in asking questions because she doesn’t care about the answers.
Instead, she’ll talk about herself or change the subject whenever you try to bring up something personal.
She simply doesn’t care about you!
3. She Doesn’t Laugh At Your Jokes
Women are naturally attracted to men who can make them laugh.
But if a woman is not attracted to you, she won’t laugh at your jokes—even if they’re funny.
Instead, she’ll either give you a blank stare or a polite chuckle, especially if your jokes fall flat.
A woman who is attracted to you will laugh at your jokes even if they’re not that funny because she wants to appear nice and friendly towards you.
4. She’s Not Available When You Ask Her Out
A woman who’s attracted to you will make herself available when you ask her on a date — even if she has other plans already scheduled.
However, if a woman finds you unappealing, she’ll find tons of excuses on why she can’t go out with you—even if she’s free that night.
For example, she might say she’s busy studying for exams or working late at the office even though her schedule is clear.
Some might even say they’d have a headache on that day.
Hehe
5. She Flirts With Other Men In Front of You
If a woman is attracted to you, she’ll want your attention focused on her and only her.
However, if a woman is not interested in you, she’ll flirt with other men right in your presence to make you jealous.
Yes, we women can be extra.
She might even go as far as kissing another man or dancing with him.
I hope you’ve got the memo now, brother.
6. She Ignores Your Texts And Calls
You see, a woman who’s interested in you will respond to your texts and phone calls at the speed of light.
Women send a lot of texts every day — sometimes even more than men do.
So, if a woman is not interested in you, she’ll either take forever to reply or ignore your messages altogether.
8. She’s Not Jealous When You Talk to Other Women
If a woman is attracted to you, she’ll feel jealous when you talk to other women—even if they’re just friends.
However, if a woman is not interested in you, she won’t get jealous.
She might even encourage you to talk to other women or flirt with them in front of her.
9. She Never Talks About the Future
If a woman is interested in you, she’ll want to know your plans for the future.
She’ll ask about your goals and dreams, and where you see yourself in 5 or 10 years. because she wants to know if your plans align with hers or if she could see herself in your plans.
But if a woman is not interested in you, she won’t bother asking about your plans.
This is because she has no intention of being part of them.
10. She Doesn’t Treat You Differently
If she’s interested in you, she’ll give you preferential treatment.
She’ll make you feel special in front of her friends and go the extra mile to make you happy.
Otherwise, she’ll be kinder to everyone else but you. She could even treat you the same well as everyone else, nothing special.
11. She Avoids Eye Contact With You
Studies have shown that long eye contact indicates interest.
If a woman is attracted to you, she’ll make sure that she gives you frequent eye contact and smiles when talking with you.
These are both nonverbal signals that indicate interest in the person in front of her.
A woman who is not interested will look away from time-to-time, especially if there are other people around who might prove more interesting than the man she’s talking with at the moment.
She may also avoid smiling altogether because smiling is often associated with attraction between two people.
And thus may be misinterpreted by others as flirtation—something which most women would prefer to avoid doing while they’re still trying to figure out whether or not they are attracted to a guy.
So, if she fails to maintain eye contact with you during a discussion, she’s not into you.
12. She Makes Decisions Without Considering You
When a woman has interest in you, she’ll ask your opinion on the things that matter to her because your opinion counts to her.
If she doesn’t ask your opinion on things, or even mention them at all, she doesn’t care what you think about them.
And if she doesn’t care what you think about things, then she probably doesn’t care about your opinion on anything else either — including whether or not the two of you should be together.
13. She Admires Someone Else
Another sign she is uninterested in you is if she likes someone else.
When a woman likes a man, there’s barely any emotional space for another.
So if her eyes light up when another guy walks by, or she can’t stop talking about her ex, it’s clear that you are not the prize.
Conclusion
Kmowing whether the lady you’re interested in shares the same feeling with you is essential before you start dating.
You don’t want to waste time pursuing someone who doesn’t like you.
However, some definite signs should give you an indication one way or the other.
If you notice any of the signs listed above, it’s time to move on and find someone actually interested in being with you.