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12 Sure Signs He Will Marry You Someday: Cues to Decode His Intention

12  Sure Signs He Will Marry You Someday: Cues to Decode His Intention

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You’ve been dating him for a while now, and you wonder if or when he will propose.

Any woman who wants to get married will have this question on her mind at one point or another.

So, you are not desperate or needy if you are looking for signs that he will marry you someday.

In fact, it’s important to pay attention to these cues as they can give you an idea of his true intentions and help you make decisions about your future together.

So, let’s see.


12 Signs He Will Marry You Someday

1. He wants you to meet his family

When you marry someone, you don’t just marry them; you marry their family, too.

If he is serious about you, he will want to introduce you to his parents and siblings.

This shows that he sees a future with you and wants his family to get to know you.

I remember my husband sharing his parents’ contact information with me early on in our relationship just to prove how serious he was about us.

Meeting a man’s family is such a big deal to them, so if he is willing to take that step with you, he probably sees you as his future spouse.


2. He asks about your plans

Signs He Will Marry You Someday

Just because a woman wants to get married doesn’t mean every man she meets is “the one.”

A man who wants to get married knows this and will want to make sure you have similar goals and plans for the future.

If he constantly asks about your career aspirations, dreams, and future plans, it shows that he is interested in building a life with you.

He wants to ensure that your paths align and that you are both on the same page regarding marriage.

I remember my husband asking when I wanted to get married and how many kids I wanted before we even started dating seriously.

It was a sign that he was thinking about the future and considering me as a potential partner.

A man who only sees you as a temporary fling or a casual hookup will not bother discussing such matters.

Even if he does, it’ll be because he’s pretending to love you, so he needs to tell you what you want to hear. 


3. He’s been distant from other women

Marriage is no child’s play.

It requires the utmost level of commitment and dedication.

If a man is truly serious about getting married, he will distance himself from other women.

This doesn’t mean that he can’t have female friends, but he won’t be flirting or entertaining any potential romantic interests.

This shows that he’s not interested in anyone else and wants to focus on building a future with you.

A man who is only looking for a casual fling or temporary relationship will continue to engage with other women.

He may even try to keep his options open, just in case things don’t work out with you.


4. He is happy with you and the relationship

Signs He Will Marry You Someday

Why would anyone go on to marry someone if they are not happy with them?

It just doesn’t make sense.

In fact, one of the reasons people quit a relationship is because they’re not happy in it.

But if a guy is happy with you and happy in your relationship, it only makes sense that he would want to keep you forever.

Everyone wants to be happy in life, so a sensible guy will want to keep the person who brings that happiness into his life.


5. He shows interest in your family & friends

It’s not enough that he introduces you to his loved ones, but it’s also important for him to show interest in yours.

If he truly sees a future with you, he will want to get to know your family and friends as well.

In fact, in most cases, guys usually meet with your friends and family before you meet theirs.

A guy who wants to marry you will want to make sure that everyone important in your life approves of them and that you have a strong support system.

I remember my husband met my family first before I met his, and it’s the same for most women I know. 

A guy who shows interest in your family and friends surely wants to be one of them and have a place in your life for the long haul. 

Otherwise, why would he bother?

Do you know that when family and friends become involved in your relationship, it becomes more complicated?

You can’t just break up with someone without giving serious explanations to those involved in your relationship.

This is why guys who don’t want to commit often avoid meeting your family and friends altogether.

They don’t want to go through those complications.


6. You feel very secure in the relationship

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This is actually one of the solid signs that a guy will marry you someday.

This feeling of being secure with him and in your relationship cannot be ignored or replaced.

He makes you feel loved, supported, and cherished. 

You have no doubts or fears about the future of your relationship because he consistently shows you that he is committed to making it work.

This can be seen in how he prioritizes your needs and wants above his own, always being there for you through thick and thin and constantly reassuring you of his love.

He just makes you feel like you are the only woman in the world he has eyes for and you have no cause to doubt his loyalty.

There are women who are not sure of where their relationships are headed, even though their men give them every reason to believe that they are in it for the long haul. 

But you, you have no such worries because your man has made it clear through his actions and words that he is in this with you for the long run.

You know deep down that one day, he will ask for your hand in marriage, and there is no doubt in your mind that you will say yes.

You can already imagine walking down the aisle towards him, exchanging vows, and starting a life together as husband and wife.

And while some may think it’s too early to be thinking about marriage, you can’t help but feel excited and grateful to have found someone who makes you feel so loved and secure. 

If this is how you feel, he’ll likely marry you someday. 


7. He talks about growing old together

 If he doesn’t want to grow old with you, why would he say it?

It’s not something people just casually throw around. 

If you catch him talking about growing old together with you, he definitely plans to make that a reality.


8. He always brings up the positive aspects of marriage

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Nobody knows the downsides of marriage more than someone who doesn’t want to get married! lol

Sure, marriage is not all sunshine and rainbows, but life itself isn’t either. 

If your guy sees the beauty of marriage and always shares it with you, he definitely sees a future with you.


9. His family treats you like their own daughter-in-law

It’s one thing to be introduced to his family; it’s another to be embraced as one of their own. 

If his family treats you with love and respect, like they would for a daughter-in-law, it’s a clear sign that he envisions you in that role someday.

Most men want their family to approve and accept their partner, so if your man’s family already treats you like part of the family, honestly, it’s a strong sign he’ll marry you someday.

I’ve heard countless stories of men who broke up with women they loved simply because their families didn’t approve.

So, if his family treats you like their own, it’s a good one.


10. You both talk about getting married


This is a super convincing sign he will marry you someday. 

There are women who are afraid to have  “the talk” with their man, fearing that it will scare him off.

And they don’t want to appear desperate.

Sure, talking about marriage can be a scary and vulnerable topic for some people.

But in your case,  both of you are on the same page and have discussed marriage openly.

He’s not afraid to talk about it, and neither are you. 

This shows that you both have a strong desire to spend the rest of your lives together as husband and wife.


11. He includes you in important life decisions

This guy doesn’t just make decisions on his own; he values your input and considers you a partner in life.

When he discusses big decisions with you and takes your thoughts and feelings into consideration, it shows that he sees you as an equal and wants to build a future together.

For example, if he wants to take up a new job, change his car, or make a major investment, he consults with you and considers your opinions.

If you are not and will not be important to him, he won’t care what you think.


12. You both have similar values and beliefs

People don’t just marry because they are in love; they also marry because they have similar values and beliefs that will help them build a strong foundation for their marriage.

If you and your partner share the same core principles, it means that you are on the same page when it comes to important aspects of life, such as religion, family, finances, and more.

You’re more likely to marry each other because you know that your relationship is based on something more than just physical attraction or fleeting emotions.

You share core values that will help you understand each other throughout your marriage journey.

Having similar values and beliefs will also make it easier for you to communicate and make decisions together, as you will have a common understanding and agreement on what is important in your lives. 


I know that life isn’t black and white and some guys can really blindside you, but at the same time, these signs are really positive indicators that a guy will marry you someday. 

And if you are not certain, just ask him! 

Hear from the horse’s mouth.



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Monday 3rd of April 2023

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