Being in a long-term relationship like marriage is not as easy as it seems, especially when it comes to sexual attraction.
Being married for six years, I can confidently say that keeping things hot in the bedroom is not always a walk in the park.
However, what I have come to realize is that there are different types of married women whose husbands are still sexually attracted to them.
Let’s see who these women are!
Before we start, though, I must say that a man has a huge role to play in keeping sexual attraction alive.
It takes two to tango, and a marriage is no exception.
Now, without further ado, let’s dive into the types of married women whose husbands are still sexually attracted to.
10 Types of Married Women Who Are Still Sexually Attractive To Their Husbands
1. The Confident Femme Fatale
A femme fatale is a confident, alluring woman who knows how to use her charm and seductiveness to get what she wants.
While this kind of quality might be dangerous outside marriage, in marriage, sis, it is gold!
This is because there are so many things that eat away at our confidence, from motherhood to societal expectations.
For most of us women, our bodies change after childbirth, and it can be a real knock on our confidence.
After carrying two weighty babies, my tummy is not as flat as it used to be.
Not that it was ever flat like Instagram models’, but you get the gist.
It is normal to feel self-conscious about your body after childbirth.
But the truth is, there’s more to being confident than having a perfect body.
Haven’t you met people who are not conventionally attractive, but they have this aura about them that makes them irresistible?
And also those who seem to have it all physically but are still miserable?
Confidence is not just about looks; It’s a mindset and an attitude.
Confidence is super-sexy, and the femme fatale knows it.
She carries herself with a certain air of self-assuredness.
She knows her worth and isn’t afraid to express her needs and desires.
Her confidence is not just about her physical looks; it also comes from within.
She is confident in her intellect, her skills, her abilities, and her accomplishments.
Her husband finds her irresistible not just because she looks good but because she feels good about herself.
It’s hard to be attracted to a woman who is constantly doubting herself and seeking validation from her husband.
2. The Independent Woman
They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, and it couldn’t be more accurate when it comes to sexual attraction in marriage.
One of the types of married women whose husbands are still sexually attracted to is the independent woman.
This is the kind of woman who has her own thing going on.
She has passions, goals, and dreams outside of her marriage.
Her husband admires her for being a strong and independent woman who can take care of herself.
He finds it attractive that she doesn’t rely solely on him for validation or fulfillment.
Having interests and hobbies outside of your marriage is a huge turn-on for a man.
It shows that you have depth and are not solely defined by your relationship.
Also, it gives your man something to admire and learn from you.
If you are a stay-at-home mom or full-time homemaker, please don’t stone me; this doesn’t mean you can’t be independent.
You can find something that you’re passionate about and pursue it.
It could be anything from cooking to painting to writing.
The key is to have something that excites and fulfills you outside of your marriage.
3. The Spontaneous Adventurer
One of the reasons why sexual attraction diminishes in long-term relationships is because things tend to get monotonous and predictable.
If I’m being honest, marriage is more of a routine than a spontaneous adventure.
But the good news is that you can still have a sense of adventure in marriage, and it’s highly attractive to your husband.
The adventurous type of married woman is always up for trying new things.
She’s open-minded and willing to take risks.
She’s not afraid to step out of her comfort zone and try something new, whether it’s in the bedroom or outside of it.
Some say sleeping with the same person for years can get boring.
Welllll, that’s what you sign up for when you get married, but I also don’t see anything fun in sleeping with different people.
I think the real fun is being able to try new things with the same person and discovering new ways to pleasure each other.
4. The Good Communicator
There’s what we call ”sexual communication” in marriage, and it’s crucial to keeping things hot in the bedroom.
This is simply being able to openly and comfortably communicate your sexual desires and needs with your partner.
Do you know there are many couples who can talk about any subject on the planet, but when it comes to sex, it’s like a taboo?
This could be because of shame, embarrassment, or maybe a lack of knowledge on how to communicate about sex.
I’m not here to judge, but I believe that your sexual desires and needs should be discussed openly with your partner.
As cliche as it sounds, communication is key in any relationship, including marriage.
And when it comes to sexual attraction, good communication is essential.
A woman who can confidently express her sexual desires and needs without fear of judgment or rejection will always be attractive to her husband.
It also makes him feel desired and wanted, which are huge turn-ons for most men.
Not to mention that good communication leads to better sexual intimacy and satisfaction in the long run.
5. The Supportive Partner
They say behind every successful man, there’s a strong woman.
I would like to think it’s beside him, but you get my point.
A supportive partner is attractive to her husband because she helps him become a better version of himself.
She encourages and motivates him in his goals and dreams.
She’s also there to celebrate his wins and support him through his failures.
Being a supportive partner doesn’t mean being a doormat or sacrificing your own dreams for your husband.
It’s about being there for each other and pushing each other to be the best versions of yourselves.
A man will always find a woman attractive if she believes in him and supports him wholeheartedly.
Just as he will find repulsive a woman who constantly puts him down or belittles his aspirations.
6. The Best Friend
Marry your friend; e get why, like my Nigerian people would say.
It means there is a reason why couples are encouraged to marry their best friend.
The fact is, you may not always be sexually attracted to your partner, but you can’t fake a friendship.
But a strong friendship is what keeps the fire alive in a marriage.
A woman who can be her husband’s friend is attractive to him.
She’s someone he can talk to about anything and everything without judgment or fear of being misunderstood.
She knows how to make him laugh, cheer him up when he’s down, and share his interests and hobbies.
She’s not just his lover; she’s also his confidant, and that is a beautiful thing in a marriage.
7. Intellectual Married Women
If you are married to an intelligent man, then being intellectually stimulating is a must because your husband is likely to be sapiosexual.
This is someone who is sexually attracted to intelligence.
If you’re the kind of woman who can hold a conversation with your spouse on various topics and challenge his mind, then he will never lose attraction towards you.
It’s actually quite sexy when a woman knows her stuff and has an opinion.
This doesn’t mean you have to be a genius or know everything about everything.
And it’s not just about holding a degree or having a high-paying job; it’s also about being knowledgeable and well-read.
Your husband will always find you attractive and interesting if you can hold your ground in a conversation and stimulate his mind.
8. Naughty Married Women
Yep, you read that right.
Believe it or not, men find naughty married women attractive.
I’m not talking about being promiscuous or cheating on your spouse; that’s a whole different issue.
It simply means that you’re not afraid to show your sexy side and flirt with your husband.
You’re comfortable in your own skin and not shy to express your sexuality.
This could be through flirty texts, playful teasing, or even role-playing in the bedroom.
Just be a naughty girl to your husband, and he will find you irresistible.
9. Romantic Married Women
Romance is not just for dating couples; in fact, it’s even more important in marriage.
After years of being with someone, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day responsibilities and forget about romance.
Now, many of us have given up on our husbands when it comes to romance because they’re not the best at it.
But if you are the romantic one in the marriage, it’ll do your marriage a world of good.
So it’s not even about your husband finding you attractive; it’s about keeping the flame alive in your marriage.
10. Seductive Married Women
You might be thinking why would a married woman need to be seductive when she’s already with her husband?
Well, let me tell you, my dear.
Marriage doesn’t mean your sex life has to become boring and predictable.
In fact, it should be the opposite.
Being seductive means you know how to tease and please your husband in the bedroom.
You know how to set the mood and make him crave for you even more.
One of the ways to do this is by wearing seductive lingerie.
You don’t need to be a model or have the perfect body to do this.
Just wear something that makes you feel confident and sexy, and your husband won’t be able to resist you.
Marriage and sexual attraction go hand in hand.
Being married doesn’t mean that your husband’s attraction towards you will automatically stay the same.
It takes effort and intention to keep the spark alive in a marriage, especially when it comes to sexual attraction.
When you play your part, you’ll know you have fulfilled all righteousness, and you can leave your husband to fulfill his.