How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

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Yes, he loves you.

And yes, you love him too.

But you can probably relate to sometimes taking each other for granted because you are all up in each other’s faces all the time.

I mean, if you cannot relate, you probably wouldn’t be reading this right now.

You are most likely reading this because you want to learn how to make him miss you like crazy.

You have come to the right place, and I agree with you; it is human nature to want to be desired and cherished by the ones we also desire and cherish.

It’s sometimes harder for women because we love with our whole heart.

So when we want someone to miss us, it’s not games, it’s just that our hearts are full and we want his to be too.

This post is particularly for you if you fall into that category.

How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

1. Stop being the one who always reaches first

2. End the conversation before he does

 

This one sounds small until you try it.

You’re on the phone, it’s going well, you’re laughing, and everything in you wants to stay on that call for another hour.

And then you tell him, “I have to go, we’ll talk later,” and you hang up, not rudely or coldly. Just first.

What you’ve just done is leave him holding a feeling he’s not finished with.

And a man who is not finished with a feeling will come looking for more of it.

That’s not manipulation, that’s understanding how desire works.

It moves toward what it can’t reach.

3. Take your time responding

 

I’m not telling you to leave him on read for three days. It doesn’t make sense. 

Remember I said this isn’t playing games. 

But if his message comes in and you’re in the middle of something, finish the something.

If he calls and you’re with your girls, call him back when you’re done because you have a life, and your life doesn’t pause every time his name appears on your screen.

There’s a woman who responds in thirty seconds, no matter what she’s doing. And there’s a woman who responds when she’s ready, warmly but on her own time.

The second woman is more attractive because she’s not sitting there waiting, and men can feel the difference.

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4. Get off his social media page

Social media has been a blessing in many ways, but it has also been the destruction of many relationships that might have otherwise survived.

Before social media, what you didn’t see, you didn’t know.

Now, you see everything. Who liked his picture at 11 pm? Which girl always comments first, and why does her name keep appearing?

Oh, what was he doing last Saturday when he told you he was resting?

You have access to information that your peace of mind was never designed to handle, and you are consuming all of it in real time, alone, constructing entire stories in your head that may or may not be true.

And then you go and like his picture, so she knows you exist. 

You watch his story the second it goes up, so he sees your name first. You think you are marking territory. 

Sis, you are doing the most, and it is not working!

Obsessing over his social media shows that your world revolves around his. 

Nothing evaporates attraction faster than a woman who is digitally anxious about her man.

Get off his page! Of course, not forever, but stop making it a place you visit to torture yourself.

Post your own content. Let him be the one checking your page, watching your stories, and seeing a woman who is clearly unbothered and thriving.

That is the only social media strategy that will make him miss you.

5. Have a life that has nothing to do with him

When you got into this relationship, did you pack away your friendships, hobbies, solo plans, and sense of a self that existed before he arrived?

I know a lady who quit college because she wanted to focus on her relationship. 

Sounds unreal?

Yes, but it happened, and a lot of women do this without noticing.

They think they’re being devoted, while what they’re doing is making themselves less interesting, including to the man they’re devoted to.

He fell for a woman who had a life. Give him her back.

Make plans without him, have conversations he isn’t part of, and come home with stories.

Be a woman who things happen to, not someone who is only waiting for him to make something happen.

A woman with a full life is hard to stop thinking about. Be her. 

6. Let him see you living

There’s a difference between posting because you’re out enjoying yourself and posting specifically so he sees it.

Don’t do the second. 

Go out with your friends because you love your friends and you deserve a night that has nothing to do with him.

And if you happen to take pictures because everyone looked good and the moment was worth capturing, post them.

Not for him, for you. Let him stumble across evidence of a woman who is clearly fine.

7. Be Mysterious

I will tell you what this point doesn’t mean; it doesn’t mean you should keep secrets from him.

You have to be honest and transparent if you want a healthy relationship.

Although I think there are five things you shouldn’t tell your man yet, especially if he hasn’t gained your trust or the relationship is new.

What this means is that you should be unpredictable; surprise him once in a while, and don’t let him
see it coming.

Do things without him and tell him about them later.

If you make plans, enjoy them fully, and fill him in later rather than narrating every move in real time.

That will make him anticipate and look forward to being around you.

8. Be someone worth missing 

If spending time with you costs him his peace or he feels drained more than he feels filled, he won’t miss you when you’re gone.

In fact, he’ll exhale.

So ask yourself, does he laugh when he’s with you?

Does he leave your presence feeling better than when he arrived?

Are you soft with him in the moments that call for softness?

Are you his peace or his problem?

Because no strategy in the world can make a man miss a woman he was relieved to get away from.

Be someone he can’t stop thinking about, starting with being someone you like.

9. Be independent

A woman who cannot function without her man is a burden.

Independence is attractive because a woman who can stand on her own brings choice into the relationship.

She’s not there because she has no options. She’s there because she wants to be.

That distinction changes everything about how a man values your presence.

So, have your own money, pursue your goals, not to impress him, but for yourself first.

A man will always miss an independent woman every time she’s not in the room.

10. Don’t Try Too Hard to Make Him Miss You

This probably sounds contradictory to all I have been saying, but we all know the beauty of moderation.

Men can recognize the signs if they think you are playing a game or if you are trying to get their attention.

This will only push them away and make them lose interest. 

For example, I said earlier that giving him space will make him miss you, but if you purposely withhold affection or ignore his calls and texts just to make him miss you, it will backfire.

Yeah, you should be independent, but if you constantly give him the vibes that you don’t need him or the relationship, he will eventually believe you and move on.

So, you have to apply some wisdom and not overdo things.

 

 

 

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