Yes, he loves you.
And yes, you love him too.
But you can probably relate to sometimes taking each other for granted because you are all up in each other’s face all the time.
I mean, if you cannot relate, you probably wouldn’t be reading this right now. You are most likely reading this because you want to learn how to make him miss you like crazy.
You have come to the right place and I agree with you; it is human nature to want to be desired and cherished by the ones we also desire and cherished.
And let’s be honest; it is sometimes, more difficult for women because more women are more emotional and so they do not know how to require the right proportion of attention from their man.
This post is particularly for you if you fall into that category. How do you make him miss you like crazy?
Here are 10 ways to make him miss you like crazy:
How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
1. Reduce communication
It is very normal to want to talk to him every single chance you have, especially when you miss him.
Trust me, we have all experienced it and know it is when you are in love with someone.
However, if you want to make him miss you like crazy, then you are going to have to learn to reduce
It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t communicate any more but that you don’t spend every spare minute of your time communicating with him. If especially, you are in a situation where you are the only one who is always the first extending hand of communication, then you need to sit
back a little and let him take the lead.
2. End the conversation first
If you want him to miss you, then you should learn to end the conversation first before he does. It
doesn’t matter if it is a phone call or chat, hang up first or end the chat, especially if he usually does
it first. That will definitely keep him wanting more.
3. Wait before replying him
Many men love being the chasers; it is either in their natural makeup or maybe as a result of societal
expectation. Whatever the case, many of them do not exactly appreciate someone that makes it too
easy for them.
So, if you are always on your phone, waiting for him to call and pick the phone the minutes he does
or reply to him immediately he sends you a message, you give him the impression that you are readily
available any time he needs your attention.
If you learn to wait a little longer to reply to him when he reaches out, then you are likely to make
him miss you like crazy.
4. Stop stalking him on social media
If this is you, this is me judging you.
Honestly, if you are always there on his social media page liking, commenting, trying to mark your
territory on comments of other girls on his page, then you are seriously communicating that your life
revolves around him.
There are so many interesting things on social media that could keep you occupied but please don’t
stalk his page, especially not if you want him to feel your absence.
5. Have a life outside of him
Many women make the mistake of no longer having a life once they get into a new relationship.
They stay away from their friends and stop hanging out with others if their man is not there or if it
doesn’t revolve around their man.
If you want to make him miss you, it is important that you have a life outside of him. Your man is
important and you should definitely make him a priority and so are your friends. Don’t discard them
because you got into a relationship.
If you have a life outside of your relationship, you will likely have less time to cling and give him a
little time to miss you.
6. Upload pictures of you having fun with friends
Of course, when you go hang out with friends, make sure to post it on social media so he can see
that you definitely have a life of your own.
It is very normal for us to begin to take for granted someone we think is readily available to us and
basically exists for us.
But when he sees you having so much fun without him, it will increase his desire to want to be part
of that fun.
7. Be mysterious
I will tell you what this point doesn’t mean; it doesn’t mean you should keep secret from him. If you
want a healthy relationship, you have to be honest and transparent. Although I think that there are five things you shouldn’t tell your man yet, especially if he hasn’t gained your trust or the relationship is new.
What this means is that you should be unpredictable; surprise him once in a while and don’t let him
see it coming. A monotonous life is incredibly boring and there will be really nothing to look forward
to when he comes around.
Also, always keep him wanting more. Don’t give up everything any time he wants it. That will really
make him anticipate and look forward to being around you.
8. Be the kind of woman he will miss
There is a place of learning to make him miss you but there is another thing about being a woman he
Do you give him peace?
Do you make him laugh?
Are you his inspiration and cheerleader?
Does he feel appreciated?
Does he enjoy himself when he is around you?
These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself because the truth is no matter what you
do to make him miss you, if he doesn’t actually enjoy being around you in the first place, he most
likely will not feel your absence.
If you are a nagging, contentious and troublesome person, this might be the time to seek redress.
9. Be independent
In this age where there is so much talk about women empowerment and many men confessing they
don’t want liability, being independent should even be the default setting of every woman.
Now, being in a relationship will bring a level of interdependency or else, the relationship is most
likely headed for the rocks.
But a woman who can stand on her own, a woman who is not totally reliant on her man is attractive
and one who cannot get anything done without him is completely unattractive.
If he knows you are independent, he will naturally be drawn to you but you will also be able to give
him enough space to miss you.
10. Don’t try too hard to make him miss you
This probably sounds contradictory to all I have been saying but we all know the beauty of
Men can pick the signs if they think you are playing a game or they know you are trying to get their
So you don’t want to keep giving hints that you think will make him miss you more and you definitely
don’t want to overdo things. Just have a life outside him and spend that time away doing something