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How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

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Yes, he loves you.

And yes, you love him too.

But you can probably relate to sometimes taking each other for granted because you are all up in each other’s face all the time.

I mean, if you cannot relate, you probably wouldn’t be reading this right now.

You are most likely reading this because you want to learn how to make him miss you like crazy.

You have come to the right place, and I agree with you; it is human nature to want to be desired and cherished by the ones we also desire and cherish.

And let’s be honest; it is sometimes more difficult for women because more women are more emotional, and so they do not know how to require the right proportion of attention from their men.

This post is particularly for you if you fall into that category.

How do you make him miss you like crazy?

Here are ways to make him miss you like crazy:

How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

1. Reduce Communication

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It is normal to want to talk to him every single chance, especially when you miss him.

Trust me; we have all experienced it, we know how it is when you are in love with someone.

However, if you want to make him miss you like crazy, you will have to learn to reduce

It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t communicate anymore, but that you don’t spend every spare minute of your time communicating with him.

If, especially, you are in a situation where you are the only one who is always the first extending hand of communication, then you need to sit back a little and let him take the lead.

Let him take the lead, sis, because if you don’t, you will eventually get frustrated, or worse, he will take you for granted.

And you don’t want that, do you?


2. End the Conversation First

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If you want him to miss you, you should learn to end the conversation before he does.

It doesn’t matter if it is a phone call or chat; hang up first or end the chat, especially if he usually does
it first.

This will make him miss you like crazy because he will be left wondering what happened after that conversation ended.

Did he do something wrong?

Did you not have time for him anymore?

This will leave him wondering what happened and if there is anything else he could have done to prolong the conversation.

And it will definitely keep him wanting more.

Examples of how you can end the conversation: 

– “Sorry, I have to go now. We’ll talk later, yeah?” 

– Tell him it was nice talking to him, but you have to go now.

Another way to gracefully exit the conversation is by expressing your interest in continuing it at a later time.

You could say, “I’ve really enjoyed our chat, but I’ve got something else I need to take care of right now. Let’s catch up later, okay?”

This approach not only shows that you value the time spent talking but also leaves an open invitation for future conversations.

It creates an air of mystery and anticipation, making him eager to hear from you again.

If he enjoys your company, believe me, he’ll look forward to picking up where you left off.


3. Wait Before Replying to Him

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Many men love being the chasers; it is either in their natural makeup or maybe as a result of societal

Whatever the case, many do not exactly appreciate someone who makes it too easy for them.

So, if you are always on your phone, waiting for him to call and picking up the phone the minutes he does.

Or reply to him immediately after he sends you a message; you give him the impression that you are readily available any time he needs your attention.

I get that you love him and miss him, and you want to show it.

But this can make him lose interest in you quickly as he may begin to feel like he doesn’t have to put in any effort because you are always available.

Instead, try waiting for a few minutes before replying to his messages or returning his calls, sometimes.

This shows that you have a life of your own and are not just waiting around for him.

Also, taking some time before responding allows you to compose yourself and think about what you want to say instead of impulsively responding and possibly saying something you regret later.

So next time he texts or calls, take a few minutes before responding.

It may seem counterintuitive, but it can actually make him more interested in you.


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4. Stop Stalking Him on Social Media

If this is you, this is me judging you.

Honestly, if you are always there on his social media page, liking, commenting, and trying to mark your territory on comments of other girls on his page, then you are seriously communicating that your life revolves around him.

There are so many interesting things on social media that could keep you occupied, but please don’t stalk his page, especially if you want him to feel your absence.

As a matter of fact, you don’t need to follow him on social media at all.

Let him have his own space and privacy, and you should focus on living your own life instead of obsessing over his every move.

Of course, you can check his page, but don’t be obsessive about it.


5. Have a Life Outside of Him

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Many women make the mistake of no longer having a life once they get into a new relationship.

They stay away from their friends and stop hanging out with others if their man is not there or if it doesn’t revolve around their man.

If you want to make him miss you, it is important that you have a life outside of him.

Your man is important, and you should definitely prioritize him, as are your friends.

Don’t discard them because you got into a relationship.

If you have a life outside of your relationship, you will likely have less time to cling and give him a little time to miss you.


6. Upload Pictures of You Having Fun with Friends

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Of course, when you go hang out with friends, make sure to post it on social media so he can see that you have a life of your own.

It is very normal for us to begin to take for granted someone we think is readily available to us and exists for us.

Because if you’ve been spending a lot of time with this guy, he’s probably getting used to seeing you every day.

Seeing you out and about with your friends will remind him of how much fun it is to hang out with you—and he’ll want it back.

So, one of the best ways to make a guy miss you is by uploading pictures of yourself having fun with friends.


7. Be Mysterious

I will tell you what this point doesn’t mean; it doesn’t mean you should keep secrets from him.

You have to be honest and transparent if you want a healthy relationship.

Although I think there are five things you shouldn’t tell your man yet, especially if he hasn’t gained your trust or the relationship is new.

What this means is that you should be unpredictable; surprise him once in a while, and don’t let him
see it coming.

Do things without him and tell him about them later.

For example, if you go out with your friends without telling him, this will make him think about what he’s missing out on when he’s not with you!

A monotonous life is incredibly boring, and there will be nothing to look forward to when he comes around.

So, be a little mysterious about where you are and what you’re doing.

If he knows too much about your whereabouts, he may feel like nothing is intriguing about you anymore.

He’ll want to feel like there’s something special about being with YOU—and that means not knowing where you are or what you’re doing at all times.

So, don’t give up everything any time he wants it.

That will make him anticipate and look forward to being around you.


8. Be The Kind of Woman He Will Miss

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There is a place of learning to make him miss you, but there is another thing about being a woman he
can miss.

Do you give him peace?

Do you make him laugh?

Are you his inspiration and cheerleader?

Does he feel appreciated?

Does he enjoy himself when he is around you?

These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself because the truth is no matter what you do to make him miss you, if he doesn’t enjoy being around you in the first place, he most likely will not feel your absence.

If you are a nagging, contentious, and troublesome person, this might be the time to seek redress.


9. Be Independent

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In this age where there is so much talk about women’s empowerment and many men confessing they don’t want liability, being independent should even be the default setting of every woman.

Being in a relationship will bring a level of interdependency; otherwise, the relationship is most likely headed for the rocks.

But a woman who can stand on her own, a woman who is not totally reliant on her man, is attractive, and one who cannot get anything done without him is completely unattractive.

If he knows you are independent, he will naturally be drawn to you, but you can also give him enough space to miss you.


10. Don’t Try Too Hard to Make Him Miss You

This probably sounds contradictory to all I have been saying, but we all know the beauty of moderation.

Men can recognize the signs if they think you are playing a game or if you are trying to get their attention.

This will only push them away and make them lose interest. 

For example, I said earlier that giving him space will make him miss you, but if you purposely withhold affection or ignore his calls and texts just to make him miss you, it will backfire.

Yeah, you should be independent, but if you constantly give him the vibes that you don’t need him or the relationship, he will eventually believe you and move on.

So, you have to apply some wisdom and don’t overdo things.

I hope this helps!

how to make him miss you like crazy



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Thursday 28th of September 2023

I have found this very useful to me.i appreciate alot

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Monday 18th of January 2021

Thanks for the advice really appreciated.

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Monday 18th of January 2021

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Monday 30th of November 2020

Great advice. Thanks


Wednesday 2nd of December 2020

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Tuesday 24th of November 2020

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Tuesday 24th of November 2020

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